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to think that feminism should have thought about the consequences and set some rules.

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TulisaLover · 09/11/2012 20:33

I've been chatting with DP this evening and mentioned a post that's been doing the rounds on facebook. It's from a lady sending a message to This Morning about the cost of childcare - on the surface it's a powerful post.

To cut it down:

'I am looking to return to work next year and child care will cost 810 every 4wks - this is more than our mortage!!. The government should help with child care costs.'

DP and I agree with it's sentiment - that child care costs are crippling families, but not necessarily with helping for the costs - he said:

"This is why feminism should have laid down some rules. Both parents earning an income meant banks salivated and started lending for homes based on both. This has forced up prices to cover this as house prices are a function of the amount being lent. Society as a whole loses, bankers win. What should have happened is when you have kids, both parents should be encouraged to work part time so that childcare is shared - or failing that the higher earner whichever gender should have been the one to work. Problems like this wouldn't have happened."

It struck a chord with me - what do you ladies think?

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scottishmummy · 09/11/2012 22:30

no love,thats point.new magic circle partner is everyone business.we will see press release
your firm will make sure if that, of course you know that don't you
are you mates with chelsy?shames she's not made partner yet

Chubfuddler · 09/11/2012 22:30

Linklaters

Pro bono? Really? Who did you shag?

TulisaLover · 09/11/2012 22:31

I've already explained that my DP, whilst being anti capitalist is not adverse to proving that the markets are rigged by exploiting opportunities and doing currency arbitrage. He's taking on the belly of the beast from the inside.

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MiniTheMinx · 09/11/2012 22:32

Pleni estis cacas Op

scottishmummy · 09/11/2012 22:32

stop yapping about him.you've just made partner magic circle
now where was your do?
how much have your fees gone up

Chubfuddler · 09/11/2012 22:35

So this is to be announced in April 2013 yes? Because google tells me linklaters only made up one female partner in the London office in 2012.

Whoops

TulisaLover · 09/11/2012 22:37

It's hush hush at the mo, but yes.

Fees aren't increasing. We are in a deflationary environment, so I've actually pushed to offer payment for our services. We're like Swiss interest rates.

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mummybare · 09/11/2012 22:37

He's taking on the belly of the beast from the inside.

This is awesome.

PamelaSwynfordDeBeaufort · 09/11/2012 22:39

linklaters really.

May have to text one of my dbros best friends, he will know you.

PamelaSwynfordDeBeaufort · 09/11/2012 22:39

when were you told that you had 'made partner' then?

kim147 · 09/11/2012 22:39

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scottishmummy · 09/11/2012 22:39

how did your firm fare in the roll on Friday poll
you're an inspiration,female partner
Come on where was your do?who's in your team?

chandellina · 09/11/2012 22:40

Weren't you talking about using torches and whatnot at one point? Yet it seems you are the beasts, not taking the beast on. Not that I care, I am a capitalist.

TulisaLover · 09/11/2012 22:41

Please do Pamela. Whoever Dbro's best mate is, he'll have heard of me, but he's probably a subordinate of mine so he won't be privy. He may even be that bastard who was getting an eyeful earlier.

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PamelaSwynfordDeBeaufort · 09/11/2012 22:41

Funny how the op and her dp blame feminisim. I can't imagine a female being part of a large law firm to this degree 60 years ago.

IfNotNowThenWhen · 09/11/2012 22:42

Am I tripping?

MiniTheMinx · 09/11/2012 22:42

Capitalists are pigs

PamelaSwynfordDeBeaufort · 09/11/2012 22:43

Please do Pamela. Whoever Dbro's best mate is, he'll have heard of me, but he's probably a subordinate of mine so he won't be privy. He may even be that bastard who was getting an eyeful earlier.

Trust me, he isn't you subordinate. He will lol at that, well smirk.

And it wasn't him perving, trust me.

kim147 · 09/11/2012 22:43

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PamelaSwynfordDeBeaufort · 09/11/2012 22:44

Hang on he did have a tale about a woman at work who kept 'accidentally' flashing her cleavage at the male staff then complaining about it. Grin

TulisaLover · 09/11/2012 22:45

That was probably me Blush

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scottishmummy · 09/11/2012 22:45

show some respect ladies.she just made partner magic circle.plans to mentor too
we need to read and learn how this feisty talented woman made partner
not tut and bray.never mind tulisa it's just well...not often one chats to such an all rounder. linguist, magic circle partner, and squad of male subordinates

IfNotNowThenWhen · 09/11/2012 22:46

Tulisa is like some crazed Xenia-Bot, invented by a committee funded by...Who is behind you Tulisa -Bot??
It's all a conspiracy to stir up Mumsnetters and distract them from Asda's evil empire.
Either that, or I am having an acid flashback.

TulisaLover · 09/11/2012 22:46

Anyway, DP and I are going to bed now. We are going to watch Vampire Diaries s04e05 and then spoon.

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scottishmummy · 09/11/2012 22:47

see you soon tulisa