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to think that feminism should have thought about the consequences and set some rules.

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TulisaLover · 09/11/2012 20:33

I've been chatting with DP this evening and mentioned a post that's been doing the rounds on facebook. It's from a lady sending a message to This Morning about the cost of childcare - on the surface it's a powerful post.

To cut it down:

'I am looking to return to work next year and child care will cost 810 every 4wks - this is more than our mortage!!. The government should help with child care costs.'

DP and I agree with it's sentiment - that child care costs are crippling families, but not necessarily with helping for the costs - he said:

"This is why feminism should have laid down some rules. Both parents earning an income meant banks salivated and started lending for homes based on both. This has forced up prices to cover this as house prices are a function of the amount being lent. Society as a whole loses, bankers win. What should have happened is when you have kids, both parents should be encouraged to work part time so that childcare is shared - or failing that the higher earner whichever gender should have been the one to work. Problems like this wouldn't have happened."

It struck a chord with me - what do you ladies think?

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Chubfuddler · 09/11/2012 22:18

Top three? Is there such a thing?

scottishmummy · 09/11/2012 22:18

big 3.magic circle
you're an inspiration
let's talk fees and cpd.what's your specialism?

Chubfuddler · 09/11/2012 22:19

No he's still an idiot. Even a stopped click is right twice a day.

TulisaLover · 09/11/2012 22:19

I work mainly pro-bono. Did you every watch the OC? I'm a female Sandy Cohen.

I would consider mentoring others - they would benefit immensely from my tutelage.

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Chubfuddler · 09/11/2012 22:19

Magic circle is more than 3. No one agrees about the order. Top three sounds made up odd.

kim147 · 09/11/2012 22:20

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PamelaSwynfordDeBeaufort · 09/11/2012 22:21

He's a mover/shaker. He makes things happen. He's always got an iron in the fire.

Ok I own a very successful business (honest it is actually true) and a recent event for the local business owners (see we even have our own club :) that must prove it) we all had a laugh and joke about several phrases and the OP has used most of them.

The only one she missed is 'I am on a break from businesses at the moment, but a few things on the horizon'

The real business people, that I know, laugh at someone who describes themselves as 'movers and shakers'

scottishmummy · 09/11/2012 22:21

but maybe this refines the order,shuve off clifford chance.tulisais here

Chubfuddler · 09/11/2012 22:22

So freshfields then.

chandellina · 09/11/2012 22:22

Inflation is almost unavoidable in a healthy economy. Saving is important but if money is hoarded the economy dies. This is a big part of the current economy - companies are sitting on enormous cash piles because there is no confidence. A strong economy needs people and companies to have confidence to take chances.

TulisaLover · 09/11/2012 22:23

Re my law firm, you might be able to find the conexion mas tarde.

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MooncupGoddess · 09/11/2012 22:24

I can just imagine Allen and Overy making someone partner who mostly worked pro bono. It makes so much sense.

scottishmummy · 09/11/2012 22:24

pro-Bono in magic circle.no idont think so.not newly promoted partner
where did they hold your party, you know the meet,greet,and wine
a partner is a money maker,not a bleeding heart pro bono

TulisaLover · 09/11/2012 22:25

Well, I'm not spending a penny until I get fair interest rates on my bank of england promises. DP keeps me in pork bellies, and I bought a lot of my power suits in last years next sale.

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TulisaLover · 09/11/2012 22:26

Where I work, pro-bono is pro-boner. We love the fact that we're giving something back.

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scottishmummy · 09/11/2012 22:26

hey you dont need to name firms we will all see the press release

MooncupGoddess · 09/11/2012 22:26

Literal pork bellies (does he breed pigs?) or pork belly futures?

TulisaLover · 09/11/2012 22:27

I see no-one is a linguist (I speak quite a few languages), so my identity remains safe.

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kim147 · 09/11/2012 22:28

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chandellina · 09/11/2012 22:28

How can your dh be anti-capitalism and trade the markets?

PamelaSwynfordDeBeaufort · 09/11/2012 22:29

is this your dp

and its a no win no fee firm isn't it?

Chubfuddler · 09/11/2012 22:29

Have we veered into trading places? Contains my favourite movie line ever:

Your brothers having a heart attack!

FUCK HIM

TulisaLover · 09/11/2012 22:29

Literal pork bellies. We can't get enough of them. He cornered the future's market in it in the past, and developed a taste for them when a certain amount of the futures expired and we were forced to take delivery.

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MiniTheMinx · 09/11/2012 22:29

This is the reason I think I would prefer to keep my own counsel Confused standards must be falling, do they let anyone practice law?

Yama · 09/11/2012 22:30

I'm beginning to like you Tulisa.

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