Isabelle What I don't understand is people who say "why should my taxes pay benefits for other peoples children when I don't have any of my own?" Idiots!
I covered this slightly earlier on. I am unable to have children. There are at least a million non-pensioners out there who either can't have or have chosen not to have children. Yes, some of these people feel they shouldn't pay anything for your children but MOST do feel it right and proper to pay our bit towards educating your children as some of them will be our doctors and nurses and the like. We need a certain birth rate to continue the species (although as the population of the world has more than doubled in 50 years, that's questionable in certain parts of the globe).
But this does not mean we should happily accept to pay for ALL your children under any circumstances. Two, to my mind, is sufficient. If you want more than two, I think it only fair you take that entire burden on yourself UNLESS fate later needs to the welfare state to intervene because you NEED it.
My parents could only afford me. So they didn't have any more.
Catholic teaching is against contraception, so Catholic families keep churning them out. Why the hell should I pay for all of them? Paying for some, yes, no problem.
The welfare state was set up to help those who NEED it. Not to help every single parent every time they want (as opposed to need) a child ad infinitum. And, I repeat, this particular benefit was originally established to help repopulate the country after World War Two, not to give women a direct bit of money as was mentioned earlier.
Society does not NEED each couple to produce more than two children. So why not stop the benefit after two? Far fairer than any sort of means testing.