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AIBU?

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Baby outdoors in winter AIBU?

38 replies

aamia · 30/10/2012 18:28

I have horses, and need to tend to them each day. Sometimes it takes a while. If baby isn't cold (so wrapped up as warmly as needed), AIBU to have him outside with me? Should he only be in a warm car or house? Have some people saying 'poor baby' whenever they see him outside, warm and cosy in his layers, and some surprised when I do leave him at home with DH. Really confused here. Surely if he's warm it's ok?

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PickledFanjoCat · 30/10/2012 18:29

He is fine! Tell them to piss orf.

valiumredhead · 30/10/2012 18:30

Utter bollocks - fresh air is good as long as baby is wrapped up warm!

AnnaKissed · 30/10/2012 18:30

What if you were out for a walk or something? The baby would still be outside then and people wouldn't say anything.

Sirzy · 30/10/2012 18:31

What are you supposed to do keep them locked inside for 6 months of the year?

Fresh air is good for them!

Hyperballad · 30/10/2012 18:35

It'll do him a lot more good being out with you than being stuck in a central heated stuffy house!

I second telling them to piss off!

Ps you can't beat those gorgeous rosy outdoor cheeks can you?!

cathpip · 30/10/2012 18:36

What utter toss, if my dc fell asleep in there buggy whilst i was dog walking i just left them in it outside till they woke up. Nothing wrong with either of them oh apart from never ever being ill!!

crazycanuck · 30/10/2012 18:37

Cripes, they must think everyone in Canada is a child abuser, sending kids out to play in the snow and bundling babies up to pull them on sleds. Ignore the silly sods, if he's wrapped up he's fine!

CorporeSarnie · 30/10/2012 18:39

agreed, yanbu: fresh air is good for them.

halloweeneyqueeney · 30/10/2012 18:40

my "poor baby" no 2 will be outdoors every weekday from newborn.. DC1 has to get to preschool/school!

DameMarghoulFountain · 30/10/2012 18:40

did you know if they get wet, they DON'T melt Shock

Wink

enjoy your baby and horses, a brilliant combination if you ask me

redexpat · 30/10/2012 18:41

In Denmark we put them in their prams to sleep outside during the day. Down to -10C is fine.

Pollykitten · 30/10/2012 18:42

my mum used to put me out under the apple tree every day, unless it was raining, for a couple of hours no matter what temperature. I'm not stunted or sickly or anything!

NulliusInBlurba · 30/10/2012 18:42

Eh, we get down to minus 20 most winters, and often have a period of several months where it never gets above zero. What are we supposed to do, never bring babies into the open air? 'Some people' are just potty.

He's in a proper snow suit, with hat, scarf and gloves, yes? And a blanket/duvet wrapped around if he's a smaller baby? Then he's fine. The only thing I would recommend on really cold days is rubbing fat (nothing water based) on his cheeks to stop them peeling.

PurplePidjInAPointyHat · 30/10/2012 18:44

How else is he going to grow up to be a 3 day eventing olympic gold medal champion [hconfused]

colleysmill · 30/10/2012 18:50

My friend has a theory that theres no such thing as bad weather, only bad clothing. I've adopted this myself now!

I'm sure if he's wrapped up well he will be fine :)

plutocrap · 30/10/2012 18:51

Also, put the rain cover up to create an "atmosphere" of warmer air! Smile

Raspberrysorbet · 30/10/2012 18:52

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FrightRunScream · 30/10/2012 18:54

Lol! My mum and her brothers - all 1940s winter babies - were "let out" when the temperature rose to freezing. My grandparents' house wasn't much warmer much of the time Wink !

Get yourself familiar with Bush Baby and Spotty Otter OP and carry on with your outdoorsy lifestyle.

Sirzy · 30/10/2012 18:57

Raspberry - I was always told to work on one more layer than you wear. If in doubt out an extra blanket on them as you can always whip that off!

Raspberrysorbet · 30/10/2012 18:59

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recall · 30/10/2012 19:02

I used to do this, and put a WARM hot water bottle at the bottom of the buggy/pram

cranverry · 30/10/2012 19:04

Another Canadian mumsnetter. We'd be in for around 5 months of the year if we didn't take our babies out in the winter. Whilst I have days where I dream about hibernating, I think my toddler would strongly object.

PuffPants · 30/10/2012 19:06

Raspberry, I don't like seeing babies too trussed up at the first sign of a chilly breeze. Trust your judgement. It's 10 degrees here and so DS has his cost on, like me, but no accessories yet. I couldn't believe the state of the toddlers at playgroup today, bustled up in hats, gloves, scarves, earmuffs - what will they do when winter arrives? It's only autumn fgs Confused

PuffPants · 30/10/2012 19:07

Et...his coat.

aamia · 30/10/2012 19:07

Thanks everyone :). Today it was 8 degrees or so here, and he was wearing vest, T-shirt, jumper, trousers, thick padded snowsuit thingy. Then in the buggy around him was a footmuff (fleece with padding), and another fleece blanket over the top. I undid the rain cover as he got too hot Blush. Just with all the recent threads about SS was worried - would they have issues with it? He was out there for about 2 hours today. Never cold. I kept checking lol!

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