FGS! I wasn't saying that people on £60k should live in crappier housing. I was saying that you should be appreciative of the nicer housing that BEING on £60k affords you, and not claim poverty BECAUSE you are living in nicer housing. Truly being in poverty means that you don't even have the choice to live in nicer housing.
By all means live in a nice house. Just don't cry poverty because you do. You can choose to have a lower disposable income but a nicer house, or to have a higher disposable income but a less nice house.
The majority of people earning less than £40k can't have either. They have no disposable income AND shitty housing.
And me saying what wealthy seemed to ME, now, is true. For ME. Because I will never again be in the position where I DON'T have to worry about those things, that is what wealthy is TO ME.
I was answering the question I was asked. Truthfully.
It may not seem like 'wealthy' to you, simply 'not being in poverty', but for those with no way out of poverty, surely you can see that those things WILL be their definition of wealthy?