fishwife you would love to have 7 kids? Really? Really really?
Alurka ^How is it fair that DH and I do shitty jobs and limit our family to support those who don't work and have loads of children? I don't get it.
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Thing is, we're all taliking here as if the choice we make about how many kids we have is purely based on our finances. Sure, money will contribute to my decision not to have more than 2 children but also I'll do that because I don't want to interupt my career; because I think it's a drain on the environment; because I delayed having children to my mid-30s; because DP agrees with me and wouldn't bully me to have more; because I don't want my house FULL of noisy, demanding small-people etc etc.
And the reason I'm in the position to decide these things is because I myself was born into a middle class home, I'm well-educated, I'm healthy, I've never suffered abuse etc etc. So I'm much more able to make those choices.
Alurka maybe money is the main reason why you won't have more kids - that sucks - but thankfully for your children you're able to make that rational choice and ensure them a decent quality of life. Some children born into poorer households aren't that lucky.
The reason it's fair for some of our taxes to support larger families is that as a civilised society we have a moral obligation to ensure that no one lives in desparate poverty, especially the most vulnerable in society like children. The policies of this government (which they justify with these trite "Why should...?" arguments) will push children back into living conditions which whould have been consigned to the history books. It's a disgrace and it saddens me that "ordinary working people" are falling for these millionaires' bullshit. Coz believe me, they care as much about you and me as they do the supposed feckless poor.