we've been married for 5 years, we have a beautiful boy of 3 and we haven't had sex since he was conceived.
my DW has never been very sexual and although we had sex not very ofter at least we did now and again. I never pressure her about it, although I have talked about it with her and she replied she'd rather have a cup of tea and cuddle then sex. Okay, that's fine if that's what she wants, but I feel like she doesn't ever consider my needs. I get aroused when we are in bed and perform on her certain things, but it never leads to intercourse or her doing anything to me.
She wants another baby next year, so I'll be expected to perform when it suits her.
Am I being a selfish to expect a little bit of physical intimacy now and then? I just don't know anymore 