I don't know if I'm being unreasonable, or justified in this...
DP goes to a Whisky Club every other Wednesday. He's done this since before we met. They all meet and share two different bottles of unusual and rare whisky - because there's a few of them, they only have a couple of glasses each. So he usually gets home about 11.30pm, and is merry but never drunk.
Last night he came home, I have no idea what time - because I was asleep. But I woke up at 3am and he was staggering upstairs, drunk out of his mind - he came to bed and promptly fell asleep.
Today is my birthday. I got up with the children at 6am and have sat here with them by myself since then. He's still snoring upstairs. I've had no presents because he is "sorting" them and had obviously planned to give me them when we're all up.
DS1 has now left for school breakfast club, DS2's taxi gets here in about 20 minutes - so neither of them are going to be around when he finally pulls his arse out of bed.
He has a medical condition, which is made worse when he has a hangover - which pretty much means that I can write off today, because he will probably need to stay in bed.
Here's the bit where I'm wondering if I'm being unreasonable - he doesn't do it often at all. He only goes out to whisky club, and it's only fortnightly. Out of those nights he maybe gets stupidly drunk twice, three times a year... So it's not as if he does it all the time.
I'm just sad and feeling crappy because I feel like he's ruined my day. But then there's the part of me that just thinks I'm a 34 year old woman, I need to pull myself together!