DH and I didn't want to find out what gender baby we're having this time. I had a difficult pregnancy last time, DS was a bit early and I had pre-eclampsia. DS is now almost 2 and still has a few ongoing health problems, after already having had several surgeries. So, all DH and I care about is that this baby (our second) is healthy & preferably full-term.
We had our 20-week scan today. The sonographer asked at the start whether we wanted to know the sex, and we said no. She got on and checked everything, and wonderfully baby looks perfect. Then she said "and ooh, you're having a little boy, look, there's his boy bits!".
I was a bit upset and reiterated that we didn't want to know, but she actually said "but everyone really wants to know, you know you did anyway!"
I am over the moon that the baby is looking good, but really rather pissed off. I was thinking I'd have the baby and not really care what sex it was, as I did with DS1.
Now I'm finding myself stupidly upset that I'm having another boy. I know I'm being stupid, having 2 boys will be fantastic. But I'm feeling upset I'll never have a daughter.