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To think some people on here are trolled far too easily

51 replies

GothAnneGeddes · 11/09/2012 16:04

I know it's because people care and want to help, but when the O.P is so clearly spinning a line and people are still being sucked in, I do wonder why.

OP posts:
McHappyPants2012 · 11/09/2012 18:14

MNHQ have said time and time again, if you suspect a troll report them.

if it is a newbie ten it may be genuine, I suspect MNHQ can look into a person account and know namechanges and can identify trolls from truths

BlackberryIce · 11/09/2012 18:20

Yes, that was me asking about cafcass. I've been there with the contact thing so know it would be court ordered OR a self referral. I expected op to come back and say self referral as her tale of woe did not tally with someone who had been through the court system. I suspected troll, so I was then going to ask further questions

lisaro · 11/09/2012 18:22

Akiss Lots but not all are very detailed, sometimes paragraphed, and the obligatory 'number names'. Oh, and bloody obvious.

BlackberryIce · 11/09/2012 18:22

I feel sorry for anyone out there who read that thread who is considering getting out of a bad relationship...... The troll has painted relationship splits to be dangerous and damaging and I worry women will stay in an abusive relationship rather than risk the crap the op was coming out with!

McHappyPants2012 · 11/09/2012 18:29

roll on when Malicious communication through social networking is treated in the same way as if it was face to face

JugglingWithPossibilities · 11/09/2012 18:31

I think even if you might be sceptical you can join in anyway because it just raises interesting issues/ stuff to discuss amongst yourselves.

I'm always a bit tangential anyway, and don't pay over much attention to the OP. My feeling is it's everyone's thread once you join in !

I've felt a bit dubious about a couple of "would you leave your child alone" threads - in X situation ... more because it seems a bit journo-ey rather than any really evil trolling. Could all be completely genuine of course ( covers own arse Grin )

NellyJob · 11/09/2012 18:34

that recent troll thread was so long and involved, you do wonder what drives people to spend so much time typing drivel...

NellyJob · 11/09/2012 18:34

I mean the OP

Ilovedaintynuts · 11/09/2012 18:40

For me the clue to a troll is a possible suspicious OP but followed by worse and worse developments. The more attention/advice the more the story is spun with more outrageous and upsetting details.

A real OP usually tells you the worst bit at the beginning!

AKissIsNotAContract · 11/09/2012 18:55

Oh, I read that thread and had no idea it was a troll! Why would anyone make that shit up? She even wrote that she was going to do a big post so she wasn't accused of drip feeding.

JugglingWithPossibilities · 11/09/2012 18:58

But if someone posts with "I'm about to kill myself right now" doesn't it warm your heart that there's always someone there to listen ?

Even though I can see it could be a tempting opener for an attention seeking troll with absolutely no sense of responsibility

JugglingWithPossibilities · 11/09/2012 19:01

Oh sorry, that was in response to Katie Morag's post about such threads.

lisaro · 11/09/2012 19:03

there's a new obvious one on now, with a reference to 'inking skin'. See what you think,

EverlongYouAreGoldAndOrange · 11/09/2012 19:08

' I'm going to kill myself right now '

These type make me sick.

If you are really going to kill yourself why the fuck are you posting on mumsnet?

Inneedofbrandy · 11/09/2012 19:11

Oh Iv'e just clicked duh!

BlackberryIce · 11/09/2012 19:14

Can't see it lisaro

I probably hid it! I'm hiding lots lately

LRDtheFeministDragon · 11/09/2012 19:19

I don't think you can fairly blame people for being taken in! You may be very clever, good at reading the nuances of someone's posting style or very clued-up on the subject they're posting about ... I'm not sure that makes people who aren't any of those things at fault.

lisaro · 11/09/2012 19:19

Reads like a mills and Boon and keeos going on about depth of feelings. Total crock.

OstrichSized · 11/09/2012 19:21

I don't spot them usually with the first post as life isn't always predictable. Shit happens to some people.

That thread that Blackberry questioned did start to look fishy with later posts from the OP on and to be honest, I'm glad it was a troll now.

I'm amazed at the length they go to. That was quite a detailed yarn. What goes on in their minds?

JeuxDEnfants · 11/09/2012 19:22

I'd rather not troll hunt. I think it's up to mn. I would hate to be wrong. I have been called a troll in the past which wasn't very pleasant.

StripyShoes · 11/09/2012 19:33

I am shit at troll hunting! Hardly ever spot them. Although I thought one was recently but double checked with a mner I know is good at.spotting first before I reported! Blush

PretzelTime · 11/09/2012 19:42

it can be hard sometimes because we are only communicating via writing, it's not always easy to spot insincerity in a short post.

Oh and this must be the only site I'm on where you can't call a troll a troll!

LadyBeagleEyes · 11/09/2012 19:48

I usually spot them because I'm a cynical old cow.
I don't go on them because I know I'll get attacked by all the others being taken in, so I either ignore or report.

JugglingWithPossibilities · 11/09/2012 20:09

Oh, didn't you know ?
A troll is easy to spot ...

... her eyes are orange, her tongue is black, & she has purple prickles all over her back Grin

HeadfirstForHalos · 11/09/2012 20:57

I keep reading the title of this thread as, "To think some people on here are trollied far too easily", and thinking it's about people not being able to hold their drink Grin

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