As some of you know my partner left me.
He has pissed me off greatly.
I have tried to be nice, and all I am getting is accusations - I'm trying to stop him seeing DS (I am not), I should let him take him overnight (he's breastfed) I should make him wean now because apparently I said I was going to anyway (twisted words).
I have asked him to call in order to explain exactly what I am doing. He refuses yet continues to prattle on about what he thinks I'm doing.
Not only did it take him 4 days to even text asking how DS was (despite him being very ill), he hasn't bothered last night either.
I had to take DS to a+e as he had some strange marks appear. I told ex this, though he was out on the piss as he has been all week so I had to contact his friend to pass the message on.
He hasn't even bothered to ask how he is. He's fine, its something that's bitten him when I've had the window open/been in the garden.
I just can't understand why he hasn't even asked. I don't expect him to drop everything, but surely you'd text?
Aibu to just stop speaking to him, if he's that interested he can find out himself (IE if he asks me I'll tell him but not going out of my way to make contact). Everytime I try to speak to him he either starts an argument or like now ignores it.
I have papers to apply to court for a prohibited steps order as I found messages on the computer discussing taking DS. I'm thinking if he wants to see him he can apply himself though. Its not like he can get in my house and take him. Hed be arrested for breaking and entering, and as I carry DS a lot even if he turned up in the street, hed have to assault me to get him, which hed be arrested for so I don't think there's danger of that happening.