My little sister is my bridesmaid. She hasn't shown an interest whatsoever in the wedding arrangements (my mum has more than made up for this...) I asked her to arrange the hen do. There were loads of ideas, a group set up on FB and people invited. lots of people...who all gave thier ideas, tried to take over....and then dropped out. We (I) finally nailed the date down to last Sat night, It was agreed that we were all going to go to Manchester, Dressed in burlesque, go for a meal, then on to a burlesque club. LS had arranged that part and booked the table in the restaurant then the burlesque club. She failed to arrange proper transport, get deposits off people, and secure numbers. So that all fell through, and as no actual deposits were placed at the venues, I decided, that as numbers had decreased dramatically, I got hold of all the money (which m mum had put into a seperate acocunt) and paid for a minibus to take the 6 of us to the nearest big town (which was shite) booked a table for food then went round the pubs, and to the grottiest nightclub ever)
One of the girls that came is quite young and unfortunately forgot her ID. Not a problem to me or the other girls. Its the company not the venue that count (to a certain extent!) My LS had a go at me, said that If she didnt get into the next pub, that her BF would have to come and get her.
In the second pub, we were all sat round the table happily drinking. She tagged a pic of me and her of FB. which was then commented on b a relative of a side of the family (M biological fathers) whom I have basically cut off, for other reasons which I CBA going into atm. She hasnt cut them out. She then had a go at me infront of my friends, going on about why I shouldnt have cut them out, that Im being nasty etc etc....Made everyone feel uncomfortable, to which one of them blurted "yes well, lets move on and change the subject" THANK FUCK!!!
Once we were in the nightclub, I wasnt happy. LS had reserved seating or VIP area in this dump, but had failed to let us all know that we needed to be there before 11:30 so we missed ou of the free bubbly etc. Just got plonked in the seating area and expected to get on with it.
She also hadnt arranged any sashes, special bride tackyness stuff, etc (I did all that) Wasnt made to feel special, her idea of wedding conversation was what hairstle she wanted on the day....Shes just a piss poor idea of a BM IMO, and If I could replace her I would!!
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dizzylizzi · 28/08/2012 11:42
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