To think he should let me know immediately

[TheQueenOfDiamonds]

Possibly STBX OH is at cream fields. It's been called off early. He should have been coming back tomorrow, But they're all being sent home today instead.

I have not heard one word from OH. I only know this because my Mum rang to ask if OH was back yet, As she was meant to be having my son while we have a talk tomorrow.

He's switched his phone off now, As has his friend. I'm fucking fuming.

I couldn't give a shit if he comes back to stay, But the fact that he's not even called to ask how our son is, Or made any arrangements for his dog is what's annoying me. I cannot look after it. So now i'm sat here not knowing.

I feel fucking worthless tbh. I'm not even worth a fucking text.

You sounded rather unreasonable and controlling at the start of this thread and now to be honest it looks like most poster thought that too and then you have started to drop feed more and more to try to win everyone around to your way of thinking.

To be honest just move on with life and who cares what he is up to this weekend. You have arrangements, he'll be back when he said so no doubt and if not then you have a legitimate reason to be angry but getting angry about creamfields is just bonkers and childish as if you spitefully resent him having fun.

Things will be better in a short time as you say he will is an ex. So just ignore him

Jesus have you read the OP? She's hardly resenting him having fun, she just wants to know what is going on as her H's plans had fallen through.
And you really think she would make up a shitty husband and a child with measles just to get sympathy?
Wow.

And by the way as it turns out the OP's husband isn't going to be back when he said he would as he has now fucked off back to his mother's and not even enquired about his sick child. And not given a shit about potentially passing on measles to his pregnant SIL and niece.

Novack - If it weren't for DS being so ill i wouldn't have even bothered ringing him to ask if he was coming back. I've been up all weekend with DS though. If it were me and i knew i'd left him in the state of exhaustion i was in on friday when he left, I'd be back as soon as the event finished and be happy that my partner didn't expect me to skip the festival all together.

As it turns out though, He isn't coming back at all. He's fucked off to his mothers and he can stay there. I'm nobodys fool. I won't be treated like this every time he gets in a mood. He did this to me last month and left me for 10 days while DS was ill then too.

I'm done. I'm through with him. I'm done being nice. All it ever gets me is shat on from a great height.