OH has morning fag before tending to our DD

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So, we take in turns every other day (ish) but when he gets up in the morning, he has his fag FIRST, and then gets DD up change and breakfast etc. He does it, but ALWAYS has to have his morning ciggy before absoultly anything. When he wakes up the first thing he does is practically sleepwalk to his fags. This means that when DD is shouting for us in the morning, I have to listen to it for 10 mins, and I cant just leave her, so end up getting up and doing it myself.

Is he entitled to his 10 mins in the morning, as hes not doing my dd any harm by making her wait 10 mins, but its so ANNOYING!! AIBU??

We also went out for lunch today and hes a fast eater, when he finished he went for a fag whilst i was halfway through eating and left me on my tod!!!

Is this rude? i think so.... I smoke, but dont need to like he does...

krum if that's the case then its a bit rich saying that you will never leave your baby crying to smoke and will put their needs above your addiction etc, when you are smoking in front of them constantly and endangering their health due to your addiction.

Anyone that smokes in the house these days who has children is a fucking selfish twat. I know a lot of people who smoke and noone smokes around their kids.