that friends hubby is a complete arsehole !!

[lilmamma]

she gave birth after a difficult 12 hour labour,biggish baby 8lb 13oz,came home next morning and had no baby milk,he drove her the supermarket and told her to go in and get it as he didnt know what brand she wanted etc,very sore and tired,she went into large supermarket,walking round and collasped and badly haemorraged,and was took away in an ambulance :(

Having a baby doesn't usually incapacitate. After leaving hospital after having my first I went into the supermarket to get a decent shop (not just for milk) as the hospital was in the main town and we only have a small shop in my village.

I'm fairly sure if he was aware she was about to haemorrhage, he wouldn't have 'made' her go in the shop.

YABU.

i dont think anyone will be judging you as a lier!

It's just a whole JK sort of situation isn't it?

The mates daughter phoned a random coz the partner let her get milk yada yada yada

I see fake tans, tacksuit bottoms, hoopla ear rings and Croydon facelifts and 20yo BMW with iky wheel trims.

Ok Vicky, calm down.

lucyellensmum99 How do you know im being aggressive,iam not im just stating what i think and suddenly im being accused of being a lier,and aggressive,what a lovely lot you are,and im glad you reported me,as i havent done anything wrong its you lot,and take off the rose tinted glasses... and you dont know my friend so how can you comment and say what she will and will not like ?? I do know what happend and a lot more,but thought you could just add a little comment without all the drama,and accusations,i wont bother in future.

jumpingthroughhoops were you looking in a mirror when you descibed what you were wearing,thankyou for that !! :) and never been to croydon in my life.

why didnt they have baby milk and your friend could have said get it for me buy X brand, I hope your friend is ok he isnt really an arsehole

No deah, a Croydon facelift is a hair style, never mind yet, rest assured I don't do Croydon either.

And it's L I A R not lier. >shakes head

Bonkers thread.

its dear not deah

Yeah, but no, but yeah

you thought thats what a dog did??? L.M.A.O

Best insult ever on mumsnet

Your friend, she's not called sharron is she?

We can only comment with what is written in the op, most MN are not mind readers

Why did she just not tell him the brand so he could go get it? Or tell him to go in and ask a store assistant?

She's heard it all second hand from the friend's DD who I assume wasn't in the car either.

For all anyone knows, she might have insisted he stayed in the car with the baby while she popped in to browse the brands.

Based on that incident alone, I think YABU Op. I popped into a large supermarket the day after DD1 was born, leaving DH parked (in a P&C space ) with her while I hobbled dashed in and got the stuff I wanted to get....of course he was entirely capable, but I thought I would be quicker than he would be.

Oooh Twilight Zone

Stop being so fucking nasty. The OP came on to rant about her friend who she is clearly feeling protective of.

No one but the friend and her partner know what really happened but my first reaction would be frustration (and concern) if this happened to a woman I cared about.

Some of these posts smack of ugly snobbery and plain old unkindness. What's the point of belittling someone's spelling? It doesn't make you seem intelligent.

She didn't ask if she was unreasonable to rant

She asked if she's unreasonable to think he's a complete arsehole

The general feeling is yes she is BU

It's not his bloody fault and the OP hasn't a clue what was said prior to the incident.

Is this yet another thread testing the morals of the British nation. You are transparent. I might LET you reply.

If I was OP's friend and my husband was such a cunt, I'd have realised before I'd got to 5 DCs.

There are some condescending superior cunts on your thread OP

I don't think you ate being unreasonable at all. I think if your friend was shattered from labour, then it would be pretty normal to think husband could manage to sort out some baby milk...it isn't difficult is it

FWIW, I didn't have baby milk in the house either and dd2 was 2 weeks late; but whether she did or didn't and why, is besides the fucking point

Do we know her Husband couldn't manage to sort the baby milk out?

Remember the OP is posting a 3rd hand story about a guy who the OP already thinks is a 'rat' for reasons she hasn't bothered to post.

Biased much?

If the eldest DD is old enough to have left home, then your friend cannot be a young foolish girl, especially if she is on her fifth baby.

Tbh,i could have gone into the supermarket after my 3rd. After my 2nd, i had no choice but to walk my first to school, after two days.

She may have under estimated how weak she was.

Where were the other four kids?