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To feel embarrassed that we are so cushioned from austerity

258 replies

pouffepants · 05/08/2012 20:46

because we live in social housing.

My rent is about £100 a week, for a 3 bed terraced house in a seaside village in the south east. We can easily pay this, and have 'plenty' of money to spare each week.

We can't however get anywhere near buying a house, because it's just too expensive, and we're also self-employed precariously so I doubt anyone would give us a mortgage.
So we should rent privately. Except our rent would then be £100-£150 more for a similar place per week. When I say we have plenty over, I certainly don't mean that sort of money.
So basically we can either stay put, taking up social housing that could be used for someone in need (as I once was), and saving/spending a couple of hundred a month. Or I can go private, where we would have to go to a cheaper area, change schools, cause problems for work, lose security and be utterly skint! (Like the rest of you)

The only conclusion is that my rent should be higher.

OP posts:
BonkeyHasGOLDMollocks · 05/08/2012 22:01

*hell

pouffepants · 05/08/2012 22:03

I thought I'd heard you could get a house for 5 times your income or something.

So 150k, you can't get anything for that round here.

OP posts:
LST · 05/08/2012 22:03

Grin. usual

pouffepants · 05/08/2012 22:04

Do you go to an estate agent or bank to ask about mortgages?

OP posts:
LST · 05/08/2012 22:04

A building society or bank

catgirl2012 · 05/08/2012 22:05

Or a mortgage broker

BonkeyHasGOLDMollocks · 05/08/2012 22:05

Yes but you part buy

My friend owns 25% on her house. Ha own the other 75%. She has the option to buy more in the future if she is in the position to.

Theire annual income is around £12000

noelstudios · 05/08/2012 22:05

Do you have a pension, OP? If not, perhaps all your spare cash could go towards that?

I'd advise cutting down as much as poss and getting a mortgage.

I don't think you're particularly cushioned from austerity. I guess, like many things, it is all relative.

I don't feel annoyed that your rent is cheaper than I ever paid for a room in a flat share in London when I started working 8 years ago!

LST · 05/08/2012 22:06

Bonkey we looked into doing that and it suited us better to stay in HA and buy that.

BonkeyHasGOLDMollocks · 05/08/2012 22:08

LST my brother is doing that.
My friend was in private rent though and struggling yo get a HA house. She wanted a three bed anyway which they would have given her to rent.

pouffepants · 05/08/2012 22:08

Oh OK sounds interesting.

I still suspect I'd be a loon to give up my tenancy though, even if my wages doubled. If I didn't have kids I might consider it, but the security is invaluable.

OP posts:
BonkeyHasGOLDMollocks · 05/08/2012 22:09

*wouldn't

pouffepants · 05/08/2012 22:09

I don't think I have the right to acquire for some reason.

OP posts:
MadgeHarvey · 05/08/2012 22:09

pouffepants Sun 05-Aug-12 22:04:01

Do you go to an estate agent or bank to ask about mortgages?

No. Try the local Spar first. Didn't you know that?

LST · 05/08/2012 22:10

Bonkey - true. If I wasn't already in HA it would of been the only way we could have afforded a house.

Some of the part buys (as long as you can get a mortgage) are tonnes cheaper than private renting.

BonkeyHasGOLDMollocks · 05/08/2012 22:11

Grin @ Madge !

Op it sounds like you don't actually want to look at any other option so give it up!

squeakytoy · 05/08/2012 22:13

I am also failing to see how you see yourself as so cushioned either. If everything above £6k is fluctuating income, which could easily vanish, then if I were you, I would be thanking my lucky stars that I was in HA housing, and be saving whatever I could in case it goes wrong.

catgirl2012 · 05/08/2012 22:14

I just got a Pizza delivered and they charged me £9.99 which is the same price they charge OAPs and CEOs

This has really upset me. It's not right

They shouldn't ask for my phone number, they should ask for 3 months bank statements so they can decide what to charge me. Its the only way

I could afford to pay at least £12.99 for my pizza. I feel like I have an advantage over other people

MadgeHarvey · 05/08/2012 22:15

You can afford to send out for pizza? Go straight to your bedroom and have a think about yourself!

ThreeWheelsGood · 05/08/2012 22:16

Olympia2012 - where do you live? I'm sure i looked into applying to be on social housing register in our London borough and we had to put income and benefits we're on etc (maybe I'm misremembering).

Mrsjay · 05/08/2012 22:16

take away pizza get you [pgrin]

Mrsjay · 05/08/2012 22:17

dunno what happened to my Grin

Petsinmyolympicpudenda · 05/08/2012 22:17

Only eat the topping on the pizza. You dint deserve the base or crusts, I'm hoping you didn't have the bare faced cheek to get a stuffed crust?

MerylStrop · 05/08/2012 22:19

I'd say that in the current political and economic climate you may not be "sheltered" for very much longer, but in the mean time stay put, lose the guilt and save like mad.

Also, if you are earning 29k av, your family is still well below the £36k the Joseph Rowntree Foundation's research suggests what is needed for a family with kids to live comfortably.

link

Count your blessings OP

catgirl2012 · 05/08/2012 22:19

No. A stuffed crust would have been too flamboyant

I wish I had only eaten the topping - I could have pretended I was on Atkins :(

Have greed remorse now