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To feel embarrassed that we are so cushioned from austerity

258 replies

pouffepants · 05/08/2012 20:46

because we live in social housing.

My rent is about £100 a week, for a 3 bed terraced house in a seaside village in the south east. We can easily pay this, and have 'plenty' of money to spare each week.

We can't however get anywhere near buying a house, because it's just too expensive, and we're also self-employed precariously so I doubt anyone would give us a mortgage.
So we should rent privately. Except our rent would then be £100-£150 more for a similar place per week. When I say we have plenty over, I certainly don't mean that sort of money.
So basically we can either stay put, taking up social housing that could be used for someone in need (as I once was), and saving/spending a couple of hundred a month. Or I can go private, where we would have to go to a cheaper area, change schools, cause problems for work, lose security and be utterly skint! (Like the rest of you)

The only conclusion is that my rent should be higher.

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pouffepants · 05/08/2012 21:21

No, people in social housing shouldn't have fuck all, but they shouldn't have an unnatural advantage over people in private rented who earn exactly the same.

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TrollofTrollHall · 05/08/2012 21:22

Or I can go private, where we would have to go to a cheaper area, change schools, cause problems for work, lose security and be utterly skint! (Like the rest of you)

Confused I'm not skint...

rhondajean · 05/08/2012 21:22

Pets I'm quite involved in social housing in Scotland which is different so not so clued up on England but I think there would be changes to housing benefit attached too for people on lower incomes, please don't panic (yet)

usualsuspect · 05/08/2012 21:22

What a ridicolous thread

Mrsjay · 05/08/2012 21:22

maybe private rents should go down to council house rents now there is a radical idea ,

Petsinmyolympicpudenda · 05/08/2012 21:23

Sorry but I'm convinced this it bollox and your just bashing the working poor.

LST · 05/08/2012 21:23

MrsJay I agree 100%

usualsuspect · 05/08/2012 21:23

Ridiculous*

catgirl2012 · 05/08/2012 21:23

Well you will, very shortly, in your own words, be fucked by the sounds of it

So thats all worked out fine for you and you don't have to worry.

Mrsjay · 05/08/2012 21:23

^^

there there catgirl its ok

AKissIsNotAContract · 05/08/2012 21:25

Ok so you think you have an advantage over people who rent privately. But some of those people who rent privately might have big inheritances coming their way. Life isn't fair and people don't all get the same. But you are hardly someone who is taking the piss.

catgirl2012 · 05/08/2012 21:25
pouffepants · 05/08/2012 21:26

Sorry, didn't mean to label everyone as skint, I just am acutely conscious of the many people on here who very obviously struggle and are doing so more and more. They were at the forefront of my thoughts.

I probably COULD find the money for private rent if I really had to.

When I say spare income, i mean after all our extras are paid for, extra car/holidays/kids activities.

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catgirl2012 · 05/08/2012 21:26

Make it stop

LST · 05/08/2012 21:26

OP you think HA rents should go up??!!! Hmm

BonkeyHasGOLDMollocks · 05/08/2012 21:27

Sorry but I'm convinced this it bollox and your just bashing the working poor

Hmmm, thats what I am starting to think.

pouffepants · 05/08/2012 21:27

Why? I'm utterly baffled by that.

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noddyholder · 05/08/2012 21:28

save it

catgirl2012 · 05/08/2012 21:28

You manage, as a family of 4 in the SE to live on £21k per year, have 2 cars, go on holidays and save up £200 per month?

Please could you teach me how to budget?

LST · 05/08/2012 21:29

You want HA rents to go up for starters.

BonkeyHasGOLDMollocks · 05/08/2012 21:29

I probably COULD find the money for private rent if I really had to then do it and give your house to someone that needs it.

When I say spare income, i mean after all our extras are paid for, extra car/holidays/kids activities

Really? All of the above would be classed as excessive treats to us. Cut them out like lots of people have to do and more than likely you could save for a
deposite and be in your own house in no time.

usualsuspect · 05/08/2012 21:30

You can stop now OP. Unless you want the council house envy to start.

Viviennemary · 05/08/2012 21:30

Just stay put. Give a donation each month of a bit of money to charity if you feel very guilty. You can't afford to buy a house therefore you need the house you are in. It would be different if you were sitting on a huge pot of money and still taking up a social house.

pouffepants · 05/08/2012 21:32

There's just no way I'd get a mortgage, I'd love to, believe me.

Catgirl where did you get that from? We earn about 29k and are a family of 5.

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missymoomoomee · 05/08/2012 21:32

Can I have some sympathy too please, I am in social housing and have managed to afford a week in a caravan park this summer and I feel really really really bad about it.