To be pissed of my brother is getting married on our anniversary?

[Lily15]

The title says it all really.Brother and fiancée are getting married overseas next month but are legally getting hitched here first in a registry office.Only just told me when. On my 2nd wedding anniversary. Bit pissed off. Would you be?

YABU

If my sister had done this I'd have been delighted - but I'm not you and your relationship with your brother and how you feel about your SIL is bound to colour your views on it. But even if YANBU, there's nothing to be gained from dwelling on it negatively. You'll have to grin and bear it for now. Maybe some good will come of it in the future, if only that more people remember your wedding anniversary.

Bit of a bugger if either couple gets divorced though. Would cast a bit of a shadow on the other couple's anniversary ever year, assuming your family is quite close.