this is a difficult one I will try not to drip feed and I firstly do recognise that everyone has the absolute right to invite whoever they want to their wedding and it is their day, but I feel a bit hurt and upset at not being invited. Its a bit of AIBU and WWYD
My cousin is getting married and has not invited any of his 5 cousins including me and my ds, I would consider us to be a close family we used to all spend a lot of time together up until a few years back we all lived close and saw loads of each other but as we got jobs, got married, had kids etc we moved away and we all obviously saw less of each other,but kept in touch via facebook
The wedding is a big do, money no object and here is why I am upset, cousin is quite high up in his job and well known in his field he mingles with a lot of celebs, he has invited them to the wedding even though they are not friends as such, and has only invited 4 family members, outside of his immediate family. I feel like he is saying we are not good enough and I feel very hurt. One of our other cousins is very upset as he was very/is close to him. There have been no arguments, or problems so no real reason for excluding us all,we all get on with his fiancee and like her, and thought she liked us. so AIBU to feel hurt and upset and wwyd, would you say anything or just leave it.