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Not wild about DS's holiday homework. Not everyone gives a toss about the Olympics.

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solidgoldbrass · 20/07/2012 18:18

School have asked parents to help their DC create a blog over the summer holidays; the school is very techno-happy (which is a Good Thing generally). They have made provision for DC whose families don't have a computer or internet access; suggesting either a visit to the library or making a paper diary in stead. That's all fine, DS would love doing a bit of that every day.

But it's got to be 'about the Olympics'. No one in our family gives a flying fuck about sport. DS is far more interested in trains than watching overpaid steroid-addled numpties hop about. DS dad might pontificate from time to time about important cultural events and all that shit, but he's only really interested in typesetting. And me, not only do I despise all competitive sport, but I also object to the corporate piggishness and the all-round inconvenience of having this crap all over my home town. Why the fuck couldn't they just have asked the kids to do a blog about what they get up to in the holidays?

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KCB01 · 30/07/2012 13:29

Homework should not be set in the holidays or indeed at any time.

Homework is morally, ethically and in all ways wrong for so many reasons. It is a parents role to assist in their kids learning opportunities but homework does not do that. Our school keeps us informed of what is going on in the classroom so we can look for opportunities to expand their learning in our time with them. Please, please, please, if you feel that homework is wrong in any way please sign the e-petition at epetitions.direct.gov.uk/petitions/17055.

Why is homework wrong? Among other things my strong beliefs are:

I strongly believe that homework is unjustifiable for the reasons I quote below. I'm constantly talking to people and reading forum posts etc which show that there is a large minority or even a majority that feel the same, but no one seems to want to rock the school boat. We need to change peoples consciousness so that homework becomes as anti-social as smoking is these days. Somehow those of us who feel this strongly need to urgently start speaking collectively, write to mps, high profile people, schools, headteachers etc and start making our voice heard. Each year we have gone into school and reminded them that homework is not compulsory, home school agreements do not legally have to be signed and that while I will support my child if they wish to do set homework, I do not expect them to face punishment if it is not done. I urge everyone who feels like this to do similar. In addition, there is an e-petition at epetitions.direct.gov.uk/petitions/17055 which I urge you to sign - At the very least it may eventually indicate how many people feel this way.

Homework Issues

I feel strongly about the setting of homework in schools. I'm aware that this issue is contentious, so I've indicated just a few reasons why I believe so strongly that homework is wrong, to indicate that this isn't just a knee jerk reaction. It appears that I am not the only one - Teachers appear to be concerned, as indeed do many parents who do not push the point, as they are scared to push against the status quo.

Sends the wrong message re: Work/Life balance

  • Most are concerned that this country prioritises work above all other aspects of life - Work/life balance misadjustment is costing us in both money and quality of life.
  • Yet right from the age of 5, we are telling our children that not only is it acceptable to take work home, it is mandatory. It removes the segregation between work and pleasure
  • It makes many feel guilty about not taking work home, and perpetuates the spiral of work taking full precedence over personal and family life.

Disruption of Family and Personal Time

  • It dictates how we should spend our time with our children and as a family
  • It reduces the spontaneity of spending time as a family.
  • It reduces the time available for children to pursue those interests that they want to discover.
  • It reduces time to learn for themselves outside of a pre-determined curriculum, and for us as a family to determine a learning agenda.
  • It leads to stress, fear and unhappiness if homework either wasn't done or couldn't be
  • That unhappiness leads to friction within families
  • Can lead to sleep deprivation, either due to actually doing homework or worrying about it.
  • Can reduce the activity levels of children, preventing them from more active activities when doing homework.
  • Increases stress levels in children
  • Result in drained, tired children - everyone needs time to refresh themselves - That time is the time that they are not at school or work.

Dissuades Children from Learning for fun

  • A 2006 Scholastic/Yankelovich study found that reading for pleasure is a better indicator of test scores than homework, but that reading for pleasure decreases sharply after the age of eight. The study found that the largest reason for this was due to homework.

Rude, Inconsiderate and impolite

  • I consider the presumption that a school can take up my family?s time outside of the hours prescribed to it as plain rudeness.
  • I think it unlikely that the school would take kindly to my setting my children things to do during lessons.
  • Yet that is exactly what homework does to time outside of school. If a school believes that it can determine what my family does in its own time, then why shouldn't I specify what my children do for a period of time in each lesson? Because, as I would agree, it would be impolite and inconsiderate!

Most studies show limited or no use in primary schools and only some use in secondary

  • 2006 Synthesis of research - Found no correlation between homework and achievement in Primary, limited in Secondary (but only up to a period of 1 hour)
  • US Cross Cultural analysis found that low-homework setting countries such as Japan, consistently achieve better than higher homework setting countries such as UK and US.
  • Some schools are eliminating homework completely (e.g. Nottingham East Academy). Tiffin School - "Something's not right when a boy can't watch a nature documentary because he's busy doing maths".
  • School provides a standardised place for formal learning - Home does not - Home life can be noisy, distracting, unsettling etc.
  • Often homework is given because "parents expect it". As Peter Stanford from the Independent says "Teachers set homework in the belief that it pleases parents. Parents don't disabuse them of this, even when it is exhausting their child, because they don't want him or her to be singled out or seen as failing."
--- Richard Rowe, head of Holy Trinity School at Guildford, Surrey, said he would happily vote to abolish homework but had been unable to persuade parents."I genuinely think that if children of primary age are taught well and do a good day's work, there should be no need for homework," he said. "They should be allowed to have a childhood." (Times educational Supplement 14/3/2008) ----Margaret Morrissey, of the National Confederation for Parent Teacher Associations, said: "Schools need to explain to parents that they want their pupils to be fresh and excited in class. "Younger children go to school quite early and, if their parents work, don't get home till 6pm. To have homework on top of that just risks burnout." (Times educational Supplement 14/3/2008)
  • Even teachers and their union dispute the use of homework - . Professor Dylan Wiliam of the Institute of Education in London, "Research shows homework does not make much of a difference"
--- ATL (Association of Teachers and Lecturers) in 2008 called for an outright ban on primary school homework saying that it was "counter-productive" (+ strict limits on secondary school homework).
Denise34 · 30/07/2012 13:31

How are olympic competitors overpaid? Confused

ivykaty44 · 30/07/2012 13:58

I would hate it if my dd was sent home with homework for the summer holidays, it is bad enough at half term breaks as we want to go away and do family stuff but have found we can't due to the amount of homework.

If the homework was then to keep a blog about trains or football I would be even more racked off (as they have no interest to my dd or me).

i feel your pain Op

ivykaty44 · 30/07/2012 13:59

How are olympic competitors overpaid? The male football team are paid aren't they?

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