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To take my baby on holiday with chickenpox

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MamaMia100 · 20/07/2012 09:55

Before you shoot me down, read on:
It started on monday 16th when I found a big well developed (so must have been there a day or 2 already) blister under his testicles. A day or 2 later, more spots and a temperature (quite mild, he hasn't really been that unwell). Old advice is wait until all spots crusted over (which would prob be a good week away from
now as new spots still appearing) but gp said (and wrote me a note saying) that new guidelines are that they are only infectious for a max of 6 days from first spot (which must have appeared on Sunday at latest as it was already a big fat blister by the time I found it on Monday, and the other spots have taken a few days to reach that stage). Supposed to be going to rural France to stay in a v isolated house which we are unlikely to leave v often (as there's a pool ad massive gardens there) by train tomorrow morning. I am worried about
A) infecting others on train as, despite gp advice, spots are far from crusted over,
B) him getting more ill while away from home (been told they can get a bad cough a week after pox gone - any experience of this???). He has breathing issues which are due tone investigated when we get back from hold (noisy breathing/gasping - suspected floppy larynx or similar. Endoscopy had to be postponed when he developed the pox).
Any opinions? Do I go with gp's advice, or my conscience (and miss out on my hols when he may not even be infectious - don't think travel insurance will work as we bought it after pox
seen by gp). And there's the worry of a bad cough making his breathing worse. We are going with a friend who is a trainee gp and there is a hospital nearby but still a bit worried...

Any thoughts/ opinions greatly appreciated as I've lost the plot somewhat! Sorry for mammoth post! TIA

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TarkaTheOtter · 17/04/2014 20:56

Realise this is a zombie thread (an potentially about to kick off) but just wanted to clear up some misinformation about the ehic card. It is FREE if you apply for it directly. If you are being charged, you are not using the official website. Also, it only gives you the same entitlement as residents of whatever country you are visiting. You will still be charged if residents of tht country pay charges (and most do). Also, it won't pay for repatriation to UK so if you are unable to travel home without medical support you'll be staying put.

NurseyWursey · 17/04/2014 20:59

Thankyou coldwater people like you restore my faith in humanity.

Pobblewhohasnotoes · 17/04/2014 21:02

Older people could catch shingles, pregnant women could be exposed to the CP

You can't catch shingles. You can only get shingles if you've already had CP as it's the dormant virus reactivating itself in the body.

Pobblewhohasnotoes · 17/04/2014 21:03

Didn't realise this is a zombie thread! FFS!!

ilovesooty · 17/04/2014 21:11

I can't believe someone justifying potentially fucking people's lives and health up by claiming they just need to keep their lives going and get from A to B.

How selfish and irresponsible can you be?

Cupid5tunt · 17/04/2014 21:44

Hugely selfish. Don't pull the single Mum card as a reason for your selfishness. I'm a single Mum and wouldn't be that bloody stupid.

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