being referred to at work by colleague as MY GIRL?

[jaabaar]

Hi,

Femal Colleague is calling me on the phone to suppliers: I will tell my Girl to do this and that! I am 42! and not she is not my boss! I am in the company for over 10 years!

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Am I being unreasonable?

I would bollock her to high heaven!

I had a similar thing years ago where a colleague kept telling me 'she would pull rank' even though we were at equal levels but in different departments and I'd been there years. She did all the bullshit you've listed, the sneaky cow even read my emails and replied to things in my name.

I wrote it all down in a letter and met with my boss, explained the situation but said I had more detailed version of events in the letter. I would do this if I were you an include the part about the meeting not happening.

This woman will probably do something batshit crazy like weep in the meeting but just rise above, maintain your stance and if you feel you must look for another job, but only leave when you've found what you want. DO NOT be driven out without somewhere equally good or better to go.