Partners Gone On Holiday

[RazzleDazzle91]

Hi Ladies, I'm 8 months pregnant and on friday my partner went on holiday without me, didn't even seem to bother him that I might want to go away.!!! He said "ow its the last time before little man comes that ill get to surf" so I replied "what if I'd like to go away before he arrives to have a break" but nope he still went alone with his dad and brother. Its really angered me for the fact he thinks its okay to go on holiday whilst silly little pregnant me sits at home. To make things worse we had a family wedding saturday which he missed to go on holiday, baring in mind he new the date of the wedding at least 2months ago, holiday was booked 3weeks ago.
Sorry its a long post, just needed to see if I'm being unreasonable being angry at him.
Thanks a lot.
D.x

Dprince - I understand you've experienced the high risk pregnancies, but everyone is different and I feel vunerable and wish he was here!x

Yes but you have asked for opinions and in MY OPINION YABU, slightly. I am unsure why you would ask if AIBU, if you really don't want anyone to disagree.
You clearly think you are being reasonable, so run with that. But when you ask AIBU, it is only sensible to expect some people to agree and some people not to.

So he accepted the invitation and let the bride and groom pay for his meal then just not bothered to turn up and he's left you and gone on a 7 hour journey when you're feeling vulnerable

Selfish and self-centred are two of the adjectives that are coming to mind right now.

"So he accepted the invitation and let the bride and groom pay for his meal then just not bothered to turn up and he's left you and gone on a 7 hour journey when you're feeling vulnerable"

There is nothing reasonable about that.

Dprince- Clearly you haven't read my previous posts as I've already posted saying

"RazzleDazzle91 Mon 16-Jul-12 17:24:07
Thanks for your advice everyone, its nice to have both good and bad responses! I think we will be having a big talk when his home.x"

So I am taking both sides good and bad!

Nothing wrong with separate holidays per se, but I'm about a man who elects to go and stay 7 hours from home with a heavily pregnant partner.

Plus when you raised objections and told him clearly WHY you weren't happy with him going, he disregarded you.

Tosser.

He certainly wouldn't be my partner for long! Was he this selfish before you were pregnant?