to ask what happened to mr and mrs cunty?

[lauratheexplorer]

The one with the DH's daughter? I'm gone an hour and poof!

Moomin is correct which is why I am not sure about the bridge dweller thing.

My ex (DS's dad) hasnt seen him at all apart from at a distance, and pretty much did the same as the OPs husband, didnt acknowledge DS and didnt pay any money (this was pre CSA and he was a student with no money so not worth going to court).

I got in touch with him a couple of years ago via facebook after DS (then 19) asked me to. DS then got in touch himself. He never replied initially because his fiancee deleted the messages off his facebook and blocked us, she very proudly told her friends, showing them the messages Except one of her friends is also someone I know, who was disgusted and told me what had happened. When he found out (from the same friend who felt he had a right to know that his DS was trying to get in touch with him) he stayed with the fiancee and said that he didnt want any contact as it would upset her.

Not sure who is worse tbh.

Or his work. Maryz thinks it's one particular prick who comes on here every so often trying out plots for his writing club.

I know 3 fathers who are exactly the same, the step mothers also feel that their own children are more important and dislike the idea of any relationship between their dh and the children they haven't bothered with.

Well if he thinks that that is a decent plot i would suggest he goes back to creative writing class! You are supposed to engage the reader, not incite a book burning :o

Regardless of it being true or not it does happen

50 Shades of shit makes me want to burn books.

Ive name changed for this but my dh daughter from a previous relationship got back in contact and tried to cause a lot of trouble.

So in some cases and im not saying that womans case, thats if its even true is right. But not every reunion works out good. And in my husbands case his ex was an evil trouble maker also.

I don't think I have ever seen so many personal attacks on one thread before

Someone worked out that you couldn't call her a raging cunt but vile bitch seemed to be ok re: deletions lol

If she was real, I really hope that the SD saw that thread.
It must be hard, when your biological parent doesn't want to know you. You wonder what you did wrong, why you weren't good enough?
The poor kid would get some closure, reading that thread, she didn't do anything wrong, her biological parent is a twunt!

Hecate is right, there was one where the daughter had come to the door and they'd had guests and turned her away - again it was the woman emailing the husband's daughter. No follow-up from OP then, iirc.

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/relationships/1418351-DHs-daughter-from-brief-fling-appears-on-doorstep-29-years-later

I had deja vu reading it so declined to comment.

But I have been in the place of the daughter, so am a bit sensitive.

I wondered where the thread had gone. I logged on tonight to see if she had stopped being a bitch & had hung her head in shame. Obviously she hasnt.

What a vile person. Its scary coz my daughter could b in the daughters position in a few years time

Different style and vibe to that thread from the one earlier.

Ooh ooh, just logged on to have a quick look for that thread. It crashed my phone!! I think too many people were trying to post at the same time.!

Anyway, isn't this a thread about a thread? Won't this be gooone soon?

What was this about, I missed it?

Someone update me please?

I couldnt get away with calling OP a cunt earlier so hopefully MNHQ will throw me a bone with this one.

I did wonder if it was like a previous bridge dweller (boxroom / wwc?) where underneath all these variation on a theme scenarios there was a genuinely troubled person who was trying to work out some difficult issues in their life but unfortunately because they had put up so many dodgy posts it was difficult for them to get the help they needed when they posted what was probably the truth.

Sorry phrased that badly
The troll I am thinking of posted several fictitious scenarios that all had similar themes. She then under another name posted something that really came over as a lot more credible and heartfelt which suggested this was a real person with real problems but MN couldn't let it stand because it posted by a recognised troll so she didn't get the help she needed.

Hmm......work website, inept DH, wife who deals with emails, DH refusing to contact her......sounds very similar.

I am erring towards bridge dweller after reading that.