My DS is four, I've been single since I was pregnant, but DS's dad has been around(ish). His mum has always made an effort to be involved, and while I don't really like the woman I'm glad DS has a relationship with her and have fully encouraged it.
I've welcomed this woman into my house and family from day one, met up for lunch with her so she can see DS sometimes as his dad doesn't see him that much, kept her updated with texts and pictures etc.
She just rang me to see if she can pop in tomorrow. Me and DS are both quite poorly at the moment so I don't fancy visitors (other than my DM armed with soup and magazines). I told her no, that me and DS are poorly and going to have a lazy recovery day so not up for visitors. She said that's fine, see you soon, bye bye..then thinking she put the phone down, I heard her say to whoever she was with 'as if it makes a change, lazy bitch!'
I'm hurt and angry and want to send her a whole number of abusive text messages. So lazy I'm raising her grandson single handedly! I work two part time jobs, put everything I have into my DS and it bloody shows, he's a great kid even if I do say so myself. My house isn't always pristine like hers is but I have a four year old not grown up children.
I've always suspected she judges me slightly, now its clear she does. WIBU to let her know from now on she can see DS on her sons time? Which will obviously mean she sees him a lot less. I don't want to be around someone who judges me and disrespects me like that?