DD is 22 months. She sleeps throughout the night and naps once a day. She can talk and is interesting. I am back at work three days a week and love having the mental stimulation. I can out in the evening if I want to. But..the question of a second child is becoming pressing. The fact is I don't want to spend a year at hone looking a baby and a toddler. I survived mat leave first time but hanging out with NCT buddies a lot. But you can't just trail a toddeler everywhere like you can a baby. I'm just not sure I could cope with the isolation and lack of working outside the hone. Or the exhaustion and lack of social life. But I'd hate for DD not to have a sibling. Asking DP to take on childcare isn't really an option as I would want to BF exclusively for six months and then do BLW after that, in fact DD is still BF...