To be really irritated with DH for refusing to go out for a Father's Day lunch?

[resipsa]

He says our DD "always cries" when we're out - doh, she's 17 months, they do that - so HE doesn't enjoy it. It's all about him, of course. Yes, DD cries every now and then but she loves going out for food. Is he a selfish pig or AIBU?
PS It was originally his idea to go and he's only just told me to cancel the booking!

It's Father's Day today, he can do what he wants and if that is sitting on the sofa all day then fine!

I wanted to take DH out for lunch but he said he preferred me to cook. Damn.

(Is it Fathers' day or Father's day btw?)