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Why so reluctant to celebrate Father's Day?

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TheAlphaParent · 16/06/2012 21:31

All the toddler groups I go to (I'm a bit of a group junkie) celebrated Mother's Day. Cards were made, flowers picked, hands printed, etc. Very nice.

None of them celebrated Father's Day. Not a single one. When I asked my local library (where one of the groups is held) why they celebrated Mother's Day and not Father's Day they said it was so they didn't "offend any single mothers". So it's okay to offend fathers? Okay to dismiss their contribution to parenting?

I have sympathy for single mothers (most of them are victims of circumstance) but isn't this PC approach of hiding Father's Day a little unnecessary? Children of single mothers are going to learn about fathers from a variety of sources - friends, media, books. So why hide Father's Day like a dirty secret? It sends the message that child-rearing is predominantly a woman's job, that a man's role is insignificant. Is that the message we want to send to kids? AIBU?

HelenMumsnet · 16/06/2012 22:19

Evening. We're going to edit the title of this thread now as, although we think the OP has a right to make a point about the celebration (or not) of Father's Day, the title of the thread is unnecessarily antagonistic - and not what Mumsnet is about.

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