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To think that if you can't remember to take your 8 year old home from the pub then you can't be trusted to run the country?

564 replies

PrettyPrinceofParties · 11/06/2012 07:44

www.guardian.co.uk/politics/2012/jun/11/david-cameron-daughter-behind-pub?newsfeed=true

OP posts:
JenaiMarrHePlaysGuitar · 11/06/2012 12:09

Most 8yos would be mortified if their parents insisted on accompanying them to the loos in familiar surroundings. No need to ask them, really.

Belleflowers · 11/06/2012 12:11

but most 8yos arent related to the prime minister jenai? this is the point here, not about what regular families are doing

chocolatehobnobs · 11/06/2012 12:12

Hilarious, I know this pub well, it is tiny so how you could mislay a child i don;t know!

Sirzy · 11/06/2012 12:12

ss involved? Seriously? If they got involved with every family who made a small error every family would need a social worker!

diddl · 11/06/2012 12:12

Would she be the responsibility of the "protection"?

Also, if she doesn´t usually travel with her Dad, I wonder why it would be assumed that she had?

Why didn´t anyone notice that she had gone to the toilet?

I suppose she´s not an "announcer" like mine!

Sirzy · 11/06/2012 12:13

So they shouldn't be able to do normal things belle?

Belleflowers · 11/06/2012 12:13

still reckon it could have been a set up gone wrong

rainydaysarebad · 11/06/2012 12:13

Northern lurker - quite a long countdown there - let me make it shorter for you: Madeleine McCann.

Northernlurker · 11/06/2012 12:13

In the interests of research I have just asked my dd2. She is in Year 6, aged 11. I asked her had she ever minded going to the loo by herself - 'no' she replied. I asked her what she would think if I did come with her. 'That you're weird' she replied.

She is unquestionably right on the second point. I am a liberal mother and I take that as a compliment not a term of abuse btw. So that's what I would expect her to say.

Northernlurker · 11/06/2012 12:14

Thanks rainydays Grin

Belleflowers · 11/06/2012 12:14

mmm sirzy, prime ministers dd going to loo alone

it's a no brainer for me, I think I've explained myself sufficiently this morning to not have to repeat myself just for you Sirzy

not going to go on about it, off out for lunch now

Sirzy · 11/06/2012 12:16

Hope you have the super glue ready to keep children attached to your side at all times!

pumpkinsweetie · 11/06/2012 12:16

Sirzy- i just don't see how you can 'forget' a child ??
And if this was a normal parent ss would in deed become involved.
Leaving a child alone by mistake, ive never done it

pattercakes · 11/06/2012 12:17

Yes, Northern, but at the ages you mention. if anything went wrong' you would bear the responsibility and not the child.

Sirzy · 11/06/2012 12:18

Read this thread for many examples of how it can happen. Mistakes happen dispite claims of some on this thread no parent is perfect

Belleflowers · 11/06/2012 12:18

term of abuse?

northern?

so sensitive for one so eloquent

hardly ideal to interpret 'liberal' parenting as 'a term of abuse'

over reacting? much?

am off - would recommend food, I sense some awful mood swings coming thick and fast here

ChickenLickn · 11/06/2012 12:18

" No child left behind "

---> child poverty

pumpkinsweetie · 11/06/2012 12:19

Im not saying every parent is 'perfect' but leaving your kid behind, bit stupid don't you think?

pattercakes · 11/06/2012 12:21

It appears there are no cut and dried answers on this just differing opinions.
But a serving Prime Ministers child is in a different position to the rest of us

insancerre · 11/06/2012 12:22

This thread has gone all weird.
Social services?
8 year olds being accompanied to the toilet?
Perfect parents who would never do such a thing?

lalaland3008 · 11/06/2012 12:22

No DC fan here and I wouldn't say it's an 'easy' mistake to make. An easy mistake to make would be leaving your keys in the front door or forgetting to turn the lights off.

But it happened and don't really see the need for the big uproar I mean what do people want social services to pay him a visit? For him to be sacked? And I disagree that social services would be coming down hard on an ordinary family over this.

cory · 11/06/2012 12:24

Can we please repeat once and for all: SS do not get involved every time a child is lost in a shopping centre/left behind in a restaurant/parents fail to pick up from after school club as a one off. SS are very stretched and struggle to keep up with all the cases of children who are genuinely neglected over a long period.

I consider myself a fairly ordinary parent: not rich, not powerful, no connections. I once lost ds for 10 minutes in Portsmouth. Pushing a wheelchair up the hill on a narrow stretch of pavement and failing to realise he was no longer behind us. We went back and found him, nobody reported us to anyone. SS never got to hear about it- no doubt because I am not the PM. That is the reality of ordinary families and SS.

Cockwomble · 11/06/2012 12:24

i just don't see how you can 'forget' a child ??
And if this was a normal parent ss would in deed become involved.

No, they wouldn't! Hmm

JoannaFight · 11/06/2012 12:24

I'm wondering when David Cameron's mum will notice she's left him behind in Downing Street and when she'll be back to collect him.

PostBellumBugsy · 11/06/2012 12:24

What world is it where social services get involved because an 8 year old child is left behind for 15 mins? I am stunned that people actually think that would happen. Social services are over-stretched as it is with genuine cases of abuse, neglect & kids with no parents at all. Purlease!!!!!

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