To be told, i hate you you, I wish you had dropped dead when you took an overdose are fat f@@ing think cunt....

[flowerpot77]

And still think the is something here ... I'm in bits..... Pls someone help me

:( who has said this to you? Please post more about what's going on? People will be here to aupport you.

It's the ramblings of someone who is angry. Are you ok?

YANBU you shouldn't have to hear that

It is never acceptable for anyone to talk like that ever , it's abusive.
Who was it?

:(. Whoever said this to you is being very unreasonable and evil.

Big hug to you Flowerpot. Horrible, horrible thing for anybody to say.

Who said that to you?

That is horrible!! Like Hairy says, tell us the whole story so we can support you properly.
I know in my experience, people have called me 'fat cunt' as a last resort when they are losing an argument. Not news to me that I am fat and makes me laugh, because at that point they make it clear they are too stupid to win an arguementdebate anything with!!

you still think there is something there???? explain flower

Do you mean someone has said that to you but you still have feelings for them? Couldn't quite figure out your post.

Ok that didn't come out the way I intended..... But still same reasoning... He told me he HATES me, I am thick... I'm a fat twunt that looks like I'm expecting a baby rather than gave birth to one a year ago....

We had a fall out 8 years ago when I really considered throwing myself in front ofa train in Gravesend, he told me today that he wished I had.....

So after 11 years how with 2 kids how I get here?

I'm so tired... I work full time, but ... You are home before me... Yeah with a one year old and a six year old ... Who goes after school club and on otner nights only comes home to the finished activities he insists on taking my 5 year old too
..

I'm so frigging tired.. But couldnt manage financially without him.,, where do I go? Pls I'm so desperate..

Better to be skint and happy.

I'm sorry I'm posted before I realise the was such little detail

My husband of 11 years

You want to split with him?

I'm so sorry I dont real,y get how to do thus...

Your Husband said that to you?

Have you any family or friends near by?

If you lived alone you would get benefits and child maintenance...

Was this a one of arguement or is this pretty much a regular occurance?

He is an abusive git by the sounds of it. Women's Aid would be a good place to start. Doesn't mean you have to leave, but they will have the right information for you and will be supportive.

flowerpot is he there now?
Has the row finished?

honestly, you CAN live without this abusive prick in your life... living on the breadline is better than living on a knife edge of abuse... it really is.

There isn't anything there which is going to be any good for you. I think you know that, it's just the next step is going to be hard, and when you're feeling tired and run down it seems impossible to contemplate.

Try looking at Women's Aid for advice on the next steps. And know that there are a lot of people on here who can and will support & advise you.

Ok flowerpot, you are clearly not in a good place right now. Do you have family or friends nearby that would take you in and help you out for a while?

flower.... re-read what he said to you - how can you live with a man lke that day to day?