To be told, i hate you you, I wish you had dropped dead when you took an overdose are fat f@@ing think cunt....

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And still think the is something here ... I'm in bits..... Pls someone help me

Sweetheart, nobody should say those things to you. They are not true. Please - you can get away from this.

Flowerpot, hope everything is OK? Nobody shouldhave to listen to things like that. You can do it by yourself. It won't be easy but you can. Is there still a row going on?

Flowerpot, please try and keep talking if you can.

What a bastard. Talk to womens aid .just give them a call. It is scary to think that you can't manage but you will and you will.
You won't regret getting out.

Flower, is he home now?

If the row is going on still get some distance between you - what a wicked thing to say.

If you are currently having a row or feeling unsafe traumatized or your child is listening to that sort of thing being yelled at you then please get out now, go to a safe place pr somewhere you can get help till everything calms down.
Phone womans aid or the emergency duty team if you need to leave tonight and don't put yourself or child in danger if you are at risk of actual harm now call 999

What you have described is abuse it's domestic violence And there are loads of people who can help you you just have to ask them for help

Oh and you can do it alone and if you think about it then you know you can to put up with crap like this for 11 years tells me that you are so strong stronger than you think. Life will get easyer without abuse in it

Flowerpot you NEED to get out of this situation. You might love him, care for him, wonder how you will cope without him but do you know what? He has put those doubts into your head.

You can and will survive this. You will be stronger without him, your kids will have a better life with a healthy happy mum.

You do not rely on him financially - you have a job and children, you can get tax credits, benefits and even housing. It will not be easy but it will save your life and that of your children.

Please come back and tell us how you are feeling today.

Financially as a single working mum you would be entitled to a lot of benefits so money would not be as much of an issue as you think. Go to benefits office and find out. Get out, he's the cunt.

Flowerpot I think you helped me once jan time?? When I was v depressed.
Please let us help you. The things said to you are terrible and it must stop!
Let us all know you are ok x

hello. hold on. just plod on till tomorrow. if you have family or friends or women's aid you can go to, go.

next, get to the gp, tell him/her about the abuse and get counselling. counselling will help you to get strong. being strong will help you survive alone with your children, or help you make the decision to leave the abusive partner, or help you live in the relationship if you insist on it.

you don't deserve this abuse. at all. there is nothing that you can have done that would earn it. hold on, keep breathing.

For him to let such bile pass his lips proves there is nothing there. Steel your nerve - you can cope alone. You and your children deserve much better.