If IABU, I promise not to get shirty :) I just want some opinions.
MIL wants to have DD for the day on Thursday.
She has had her a few times before, and has always smelled of alcohol when I pick her up, be it lunchtime or evening.
DH has said she wasn't a good mum to him growing up due to alcohol etc, they get along a bit better now.
Her DP smokes weed, and this weekend possibly (DSIL confided in us) pushed her to the floor and shouted at her during a drunken row. He would be there too. I've never quite taken to him anyway, can't quite put my finger on why. I feel bad for feeling this way, but something just seems off.
When we went to visit her yesterday morning, she smelled of vomit and wine at 9am
I just can't bring myself to trust her to have DD anymore, DH thinks I'm being mean.
Am I?