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To think that this is discriminatory and out of order (sn ASD related)

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pigletmania · 02/06/2012 18:25

DD 5 goes to a mainstream school, she has dx social communication disorder and speech and lang developmental delay. They are having a trip to Whipsnade zoo, which dd cannot go to, we were given the choice to acompany her but we are not able to do that. We are fine with that as she would find it all too overwhelming and would not enjoy being with 50+ children, and would actually prefer it going into school which she would enjoy more. We will take her another time.

Anyway there is a boy in dd class who has ASD and his mother was told by the HT that he could not go on the trip, no option for his parents to accompan him, his parents have also been told that he cannot go into school either and that he has to stay at home,Angry. This cannot be right, he has a legal right to go to school, I have told his mum to contact her LEA as its unacceptable and discriminatory. He has a TA as like dd he is statemented, I have heard from a friend who works within the school that she is being used to help the other children on the trip. This cant be right, that is his TA for him. All the mother was told that her ds could not go into school, if he did we would all regret it Hmm

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pigletmania · 24/06/2012 16:45

And not even the option to come into schoo, until the mother threatened with the LEA, he was treated worse than dd

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McHappyPants2012 · 24/06/2012 16:51

Oh god I would be burning with rage if my son was treated like this.

Ds has austism and it would not be a threat the LEA ieystyn and any body else I could inform would be informed of them discriminating against my son because he has SN

soozeedol · 24/06/2012 17:47

my DS is sn with exceptional needs statement, missed out on his class camp trip...no offer of support at all...got the deposit back and gave up trying to discuss it. disgusting and outraged but I have enough on my plate and he has a week to go before he leaves the school and I'll be glad we don't have to deal with their ignorance and discrimination again...his specialists and ed phsyc, etc involved with my son are all aware of the schools failings and it will be dealt with through them and their positions to do something about it, so I've left it with them.
just glad we are moving on to high school and 1:1 support etc is guaranteed and his statement award has been generous and this cannot happen again

cornysilk · 24/06/2012 17:57

this school sounds appalling Sad - I really hope that the mother makes a complaint

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