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AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

to think this is just not on? (schools, religion and bribery!)

104 replies

EXmrsmascarahead · 31/05/2012 17:33

my son has come home from school today, they held a Jubilee party and all the children got to join in the celebrations, all well and good.

He has just handed over a book to me, 'New testament, to celebrate the queen's diamond jubilee 2012'. Not a lot wrong with that, I suppose, but he has also told me that in order to get the children to take a copy they have been using bribery, 'you can have a cake only if you take a book'.

none of this sits right with me, I know the queen is head of the church of england but not all the children this is handed out to are CofE, religious or celebrating the jubilee. And in order for them to get the children to take the book they have to bribe them. AIBU?

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valiumredhead · 31/05/2012 17:36

Are you sure the teacher didn't say "Take a cake and a book on your way out?"

How old is your child?

PandaWatch · 31/05/2012 17:36

This sounds very odd! How old is your DS? Is it a CofE school?

LentillyFart · 31/05/2012 17:37

Quick! Burn the book before you're all polluted and corrupted! Do it now!

SillyBuntingDaddyman · 31/05/2012 17:39

Meh. It's just a bit sad and desperate IMO. They get a cake and they don't even have to remember to bring the book home!

TheCraicDealer · 31/05/2012 17:39

It sounds like maybe the teacher was trying to get them to pick up the (boring) book before everyone rushed to get the (yummy) cake and got distracted

OutragedAtThePriceOfFreddos · 31/05/2012 17:39

Is it a CofE school?

I would think that they were probably told to get the book and then get the cake, and would be extremely surprised if they said cake wasn't allowed unless they took the book. They will just have expected them to take the book.

EXmrsmascarahead · 31/05/2012 17:39

He's 10, he is not at a religious school and I the teacher did say You can't have a cake without taking the book.

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PandaWatch · 31/05/2012 17:41

Well it's not like she said "you can't have a cake unless you convert to CofE".

It's a bit strange (if that is what happened) but hardly something to get upset about.

Kayano · 31/05/2012 17:44

They gave out cake at my job

All we had to do was pickup a copy of an 'improving customer services leavlet which was discarded

Those utter bastards. I might complain to my boss I am outraged! Livid!

How very dare they! They should k ie some of us don't give a shit about customer services

Wink
TheCraicDealer · 31/05/2012 17:44

Well unlike adults most kids won't take anything just because it's free. Maybe the teacher was just trying to avoid questions as to why she had a mountain of bibles sitting in her classroom that were supposed to be handed out for the jubilee?

WorraLiberty · 31/05/2012 17:45

I'd be more concerned about sending my child to a school where the teacher has so little control over the class, the children need to be bribed to follow a simple instruction.

PandaWatch · 31/05/2012 17:48

There are Jehovah's witnesses handing out copies of The Watchtower at my station every morning. I might suggest they start giving away free cake too, in which case I would happily take both! Grin

Posterofapombear · 31/05/2012 17:49

If the queen wants to give away a book and cake in her party bag YABU to moan about it Grin

Himalaya · 31/05/2012 17:51

Maybe to give them something to rest the cake on Grin
tis a bit desperate.

annalovesmrbates · 31/05/2012 17:54

Well, they didn't say to read the book, or not to throw it in the nearest bin outside school, so what real "harm" was done?

Himalaya · 31/05/2012 17:56

Apparently are giving away more than half a million of these things www.christiantoday.com/article/thousands.of.new.testaments.to.be.handed.out.for.diamond.jubilee/29928.htm

What a waste. Hope it's recycled paper.

SimpleSi · 31/05/2012 17:59

So little control she can't make the children take bibles home! We obviously need to bring back the cane to intill some discipline in the young whipersnappers!

Seriously has anyone ever tried standing in front of class of kids before they critise. I was a good kid who respected and obeyed teacher, but I'd of "forgotten" to take home a book I thought was boring and irrelevant to me.

I don't want a non-religious school preaching to my child, but as a previous poster said cut the teacher some slack. I suspect they didn't just want to be left with them.

So, YANBU if you object to them trying to convert your child, but if you are worried about cake related bribary things are not always as your children describe them...

Hebiegebies · 31/05/2012 18:14

The reason Bibles are being given out is because the Queen was given a Bible at her Coronation. Special editions have been produced for the Jubilee.

Year 7 children upwards may need to refer to the Bible for RE homework, so it is always worthwhile saving if they read it or not.

hackmum · 31/05/2012 18:19

It does make the Gove initiative to give out on bible per school look even more pathetic when the churches are handing out thousands of copies of the NT.

Important question: was it the KJB or a modern translation?

MrsTerryPratchett · 31/05/2012 18:22

Seriously, is no one going to mention Eddie Izzard,

LemarchandsBox · 31/05/2012 18:39

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WorraLiberty · 31/05/2012 18:42

Exactly Lemarch or stand at the door and hand them out as they leave....

hawkmoon269 · 31/05/2012 18:47

himalaya how rude!

It's a New Testsment. Children don't have to read it or even keep it. But try to be respectful of a key part of the Christian faith.

hawkmoon269 · 31/05/2012 18:47

testament obviously. iPhone...

MrsTerryPratchett · 31/05/2012 18:50

Why do atheists have to be respectful of this aspect of Christianity when he school is being disrespectful to atheist families (and presumeably Muslims, Jews and others) by giving their children religious materials and bribing them to take them?