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to push for more from this high street company that lied and humiliated me?

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redrugroffle · 30/05/2012 10:20

Sorry, name changing old timer to protect my RL identity on here (yawn, yes I know- please feel free to quiz me on MN howlers past and present)

I was shopping on a busy saturday in a chain. A lady approached me she was the manager.

She introduced herself and said she wondering if I would help her as she'd had no luck for the last hour and needed a candidate to take part in a radio phone in show- prizes/money going to charity and their staff and the chance to win an electrical appliance for myself???

I asked how long it would take and agreed as long as it would be swift as I felt a bit sorry for her Blush- I also asked what charity it would be for and whether it would be filmed? She was vague and said she wasn't fully briefed on the details. She then laughed and said that this was very much the "style" of their company. That they were very up on motivation for the staff, crazy competitions, incentives etc. I took this on trust and they are a very big company.

We went to her office and the phone rang on speaker phone- radio guy with jingles in background etc- asks me where I'm from, age, name etc.

It was then put on handset and I had to answer a few qs and agree whether or not to perform some silly tasks (think Chris Evans old style larking) some I did some I refused (every refusal got money for the charity)

Anyway- fast forward 20 mins and I cut ot off (as I wanted to go and was stretched for time. I'd won ££ for charity, 2 prizes for the staff and a prize for myself to be collected from the store on the following Tuesday and £3000 worth of stuff.

I was really pleased and as I fundraise for a local charity I asked if my prize could be donated to my chosen charity as well as thiers (I've got no need for another toaster of cake mixer Grin) I was told we will see on Tuesday.

I arrive on Tuesday (this place is a 55 mile round trip for me)

The manager looks solemn. She takes me to the office and tells me she's been stupid, it was a hoax, nobody was coming in.

She gave me a £20 voucher for my girl (it was her birthday) and asked me to leave. Sad

I've since called their customer services to demand an inquiry into her behaviour and to get some token for being humiliated, out of pocket and time.

They've not called me back.

They've said they're sorry but these things happen????

I've nobody except my close friend to asked and he advised me that he'd be going for the complete amount of things I was promised and to not compromise.

So your feedback would be greatly appreciated.

OP posts:
WhosPickleisThatOnion · 31/05/2012 22:33

You could tell them on a PM if they pledge £50 each for your charity!

PissyDust · 31/05/2012 22:35

I can't believe people are so bothered about knowing the store name.

OP has said she has had a nice outcome for her charity so why would she want to name the store on an open forum?

redrugroffle · 31/05/2012 22:35

WPOIT

Now there's an idea.

Will ring Lenny Henry and see what he thinks. Grin

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WhosPickleisThatOnion · 31/05/2012 22:35

A telethon! Grin

limitedperiodonly · 31/05/2012 22:38

I bet it's Asda.

redrugroffle · 31/05/2012 22:39

I could kiss that pissydust. A phrase I never thought I'd utter/type.

And no, before a smart arse asks that wasn't a forfeit during the call.

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WhosPickleisThatOnion · 31/05/2012 22:42

I can see why you wont name them, they have been good enough to offer £500 so.

I would like to know. I will admit to that. But I am not sure why?

IvanaNap · 31/05/2012 22:42

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MrsKwazii · 31/05/2012 22:44

Hold the line OP! Hold the line! Grin

redrugroffle · 31/05/2012 22:46

Ivana I looked him up on linkedin (bit stalkery isn't it? to verify his credentials)

I can confirm.

He is a hottie.

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idontbelieveanymore · 31/05/2012 22:47

Well done Op - you bloody earned that £500 that's for sure.
Enjoy your wine Thanks

fluffiphlox · 31/05/2012 22:47

Oh redrug, the vibro sprout challenge was a daft thing that Vic and Bob had on Shooting Stars at the end of a show once. A guest had to balance a sprout (on their head possibly?) while standing on a vibrating platform. It's what I call that thing in the gym that does a similar action. I never suggested anything to do with Ann Summers and you can check my posts for that. My last post was said in earnest and you and others have read it as if I were being suggestive and sarky. I wasn't. I'm sorry that you think I was personal and rude. It was meant as a sympathetic gesture. I think I'm going to give up this posting lark because people just don't get me on here. Night night.

IvanaNap · 31/05/2012 22:49

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WhosPickleisThatOnion · 31/05/2012 22:51

Tell him you INSIST that he deliver the cheque in person, all half naked like.

WhosPickleisThatOnion · 31/05/2012 22:55

(Just having funny visions of him pulling cheque out of leather posing pants)

remote · 31/05/2012 23:05

redrugroffle. I have the funniest image of you in my head holding a press conference to answer all these bonkers questions. All the doubters yelling and taking pictures paparazzi style!!!!

I imagine the roasting you are getting on here is almost as exasperating as trying to get the shop to get back to you was!

Glad you have had some resolution.

QuintessentialShadows · 31/05/2012 23:07

Well done. This is a good result indeed.

If it was not for your insistence, they may never have discovered the hoax, and it might never have been reported to the police.

Not quite sure what the scam was, but there you go.

I hope you have finished all the polishing and put your toys back into your chest. Wink

wherearemysocks · 31/05/2012 23:20

Thanks for the debrief a couple of pages back but I don't think anyone was confused about what happened to you as you had already reiterated most of the points already. What I'm still confused about, if it was not a premium rate number scam what the actual scam was. If you ever find out do let us know please.

Btw, I actually couldn't care less what the name of the shop was, I think that that's pretty irrelevant to the story.

Can't believe I've just waisted so much time reading this thread though and we still don't know what the point of the hoax was.

PissyDust · 31/05/2012 23:26
Grin

"you now need to kiss the PissyDust"

"Errr, money for charity me thinks"

redrugroffle · 01/06/2012 09:11

I have just told the charity.

They are over the moon.

And so ends the story.

Thanks so much for your time and patience. I don't want to name names but many posters gave you a good kick up the butt to sort this swiftly and armed me with fantastic information which helped.

I'm going to ask MN to pull this thread as I keep meaning to draw a line then feel I need to reiterate a query answered 5 pages back.

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curiousgeorgie · 01/06/2012 09:32

Wow, that's great. You're really lucky. I seriously didn't think you'd get anything more than they'd already offered as they're under no obligation really.

BurningBridges · 01/06/2012 12:46

Red, you know you said you are having to answer queries from 5 pages back? Well, what's a cockstraw?

Toaster24 · 01/06/2012 13:10

Well done on the £500 for charity. Wine Cheer up!

What is a cockstraw, anyway?

Did the name of the shop rhyme with Bebhanhams?

Don't let us wind you up.

redrugroffle · 01/06/2012 14:19

LOL, no idea what a cock straw is. Made it up.

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WhosPickleisThatOnion · 01/06/2012 15:50

Sorry red ive seen some! You will have to think some more.