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to push for more from this high street company that lied and humiliated me?

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redrugroffle · 30/05/2012 10:20

Sorry, name changing old timer to protect my RL identity on here (yawn, yes I know- please feel free to quiz me on MN howlers past and present)

I was shopping on a busy saturday in a chain. A lady approached me she was the manager.

She introduced herself and said she wondering if I would help her as she'd had no luck for the last hour and needed a candidate to take part in a radio phone in show- prizes/money going to charity and their staff and the chance to win an electrical appliance for myself???

I asked how long it would take and agreed as long as it would be swift as I felt a bit sorry for her Blush- I also asked what charity it would be for and whether it would be filmed? She was vague and said she wasn't fully briefed on the details. She then laughed and said that this was very much the "style" of their company. That they were very up on motivation for the staff, crazy competitions, incentives etc. I took this on trust and they are a very big company.

We went to her office and the phone rang on speaker phone- radio guy with jingles in background etc- asks me where I'm from, age, name etc.

It was then put on handset and I had to answer a few qs and agree whether or not to perform some silly tasks (think Chris Evans old style larking) some I did some I refused (every refusal got money for the charity)

Anyway- fast forward 20 mins and I cut ot off (as I wanted to go and was stretched for time. I'd won ££ for charity, 2 prizes for the staff and a prize for myself to be collected from the store on the following Tuesday and £3000 worth of stuff.

I was really pleased and as I fundraise for a local charity I asked if my prize could be donated to my chosen charity as well as thiers (I've got no need for another toaster of cake mixer Grin) I was told we will see on Tuesday.

I arrive on Tuesday (this place is a 55 mile round trip for me)

The manager looks solemn. She takes me to the office and tells me she's been stupid, it was a hoax, nobody was coming in.

She gave me a £20 voucher for my girl (it was her birthday) and asked me to leave. Sad

I've since called their customer services to demand an inquiry into her behaviour and to get some token for being humiliated, out of pocket and time.

They've not called me back.

They've said they're sorry but these things happen????

I've nobody except my close friend to asked and he advised me that he'd be going for the complete amount of things I was promised and to not compromise.

So your feedback would be greatly appreciated.

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fluffiphlox · 31/05/2012 21:26

I'm not suggesting the OP is a scam artist GetThee but Im sure she said the police had been involved and wouldn't they say? Also a couple of other posters mentioned it was about premium phone lines but then someone said that the scammer rang them. My point is I'm just really, really curious and frustrated about not knowing. It sounds like a hugely complicated and uncertain way of hoaxing people. I'm not suggesting it didn't happen, I just want to know WHY! Don't you?

fluffiphlox · 31/05/2012 21:27

Double post - sorry.

Housemum · 31/05/2012 21:28

Did the store manager/deputy that you went into the office with have to make the call herself to call back the radio station? Or did they phone her - and if so, did she have to press some numbers to connect? That's what would mean it was probably some sort of premium line scam.

redrugroffle · 31/05/2012 21:32

No the call was made to the managers office in the store.(for the 15th time) I was in that office when it rang.

I have been on a radio comp before and this is what they did. You call in and then they call you back.

The manager did not make the call to the hoaxer "radio station"

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fluffiphlox · 31/05/2012 21:32

I'm going to leave you in peace OP. I don't know why I'm so wound up about it really. You were the one doing the vibro sprout challenge while wrangling umpteen kiddie winkles. Have a nice evening :)

WhosPickleisThatOnion · 31/05/2012 21:33

Part of a criminal gang! Thats funny.

Sorry I didn't realise you didn't know yet.

If they ever tell you, in the future, Id love to know. I have been very good and have NOT ONCE asked for the name of the company.

Grin
bibbitybobbitybunny · 31/05/2012 21:33

fluffi - I seriously suggest you let it go. Its a bit strange to be that interested.

redrugroffle · 31/05/2012 21:39

Yes Fluffi dear it is you and some others that put forward the idea that I was sticking dildos up my wrongun' or somesuch in Ann Summers. So you think the manager of Ann Summers would as a "sorry" give a child a £20 voucher in spend in the store on what?????

Yes I would so do obscene things with 5 children under 8 with me.Hmm

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redrugroffle · 31/05/2012 21:40

oh and fluffi do look out for pics in the press of Jacqui Gold presenting a kids hospice with £500 worth of nylon body stockings and cock straws.

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WhosPickleisThatOnion · 31/05/2012 21:42

I am earnest!

I don't think you put a cucumber up your rear!

Promise!!

Its just a mad old hoax and when and if the cops tell you why would be good to know. (it is a bit fascinating)

FartBlossom · 31/05/2012 21:54

Was the criminal gang and the Ann summers thing not jokes? I thought they were. There's no need to be so offended by everything

redrugroffle · 31/05/2012 21:56

fartblossom- it's not the first time you've said you're going is it?

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wereofftoseethewizard · 31/05/2012 21:59

You have said you are not going to name the store.
Could you please tell us the reason why you won't do this?

bibbitybobbitybunny · 31/05/2012 22:02

Ffs! Grin

bibbitybobbitybunny · 31/05/2012 22:03

Bet you wish you hadn't started this now redrug Wine Wine Wine

klaxon · 31/05/2012 22:04

OP could you name the charity at least? That does not seem to compromise the arrangement you have made with the duped company?

FWIW - it sounds like for making a bit of an arse of yourself to a few people you've made £500 for charity.

OM btw missed a vital chance by not dispatching flowers to you yesterday - that's the first thing I would have done while I was investigating to soften you up.

Sounds like they got punked and so did you. Live and learn eh? :)

redrugroffle · 31/05/2012 22:05

I was holding out and giving them an opportunity to do something about the whole mess and I am glad I did.

The outcome is they have made a very significant donation to the charity. They have assured me they will investigate. They have raised awareness in the shopping complex. They have come through I think and I feel bad for being a bit fishwifey to be honest with you. But I am happy with the conclusion.

The irony is I have a very thick skin. Normally. Grin

I bet only drama queens say that.

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redrugroffle · 31/05/2012 22:08

Bibbity- Yes. (got any gin?)

Klaxon- absolutely NOT. Why should I name it. It's not a nationwide thing its a small operation.

It's legit. The OM checked it and was satisfied.

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crunchbag · 31/05/2012 22:12

Well OP did say that she would name and shame the store if they didn't come up with the money so that kind of got peoples hopes up :)

This is a very amusing and confusing thread and I hope the Real Hustle will explain the scam at some time.

And I agree with FartBlossom (again) about Ann Summers, criminal gang etc being jokes.

Gincognito · 31/05/2012 22:12

All this blooming trying to catch people out, everything's-a-lie poirot-ing is awfully tedious.

Why on earth would anyone make this up?

RealityIsNOTWarren · 31/05/2012 22:12

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Gincognito · 31/05/2012 22:13
Imisssleepingin · 31/05/2012 22:17

I understand that the op wont name the store.
I don't understand why though?
Can you just explain why you won't ?

FeakAndWeeble · 31/05/2012 22:18

AAAAAAAAAAAAAAARRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRGGGGGGGGGGGGGH.

redrugroffle · 31/05/2012 22:21
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