to be a bit peeved with woman who butted in on private convo about pregnancy after loss to tell me that all my previous losses would be worth it once I held this baby in my arms?
Am 33 weeks pregnant and look a bit like someone has strapped a huge beachball under my dress right now. EVERYONE seems to think it is fine to touch, jiggle and generally interrupt me no matter what I am doing right now to make some comment on the baby coming soon... normally I gracefully accept whatever the compliment or comment is - but today I am just plain pee'd off.
Private convo with freind, admittedly on the playground dropping the kids off, but anyway woman (who I don't know from Adam - big school!) makes a beeline for me and just interrupts our convo to ask when am I due and all that palava. But she had heard snippet of convo before she butted and heard I had had 7 m/cs between DD and almost cooked bun in oven. So she starts on this "oh you poor thing, I had no idea" (you don't know me how could you - thinks I) then she comes out with this comment that really made me cross basically she said something like "Oh but all those m/cs will be worth it once you hold that baby in your arms. Nothing else will matter."
I was speechless, and sort of found an excuse to leave as I find it really upsetting still to think of so many bubbs who did not make it. Managed not to cry but was very furious, and am hoping I don't see her again at the end of the day....