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Original poster

AIBU to just want a good cry...!

37 replies

LST · 23/05/2012 18:45

I just want to cry... Sob actually... I don't even know what about..

Feeling really sorry for myself and upset..

:(

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UnCharteredromaeosaur · 23/05/2012 18:46

i want a good cry too

what's upsetting you LST?

Sirzy · 23/05/2012 18:47

Can I join in?

What's up?

Westcountrylovescheese · 23/05/2012 18:47

We're doing a lot of crying at the moment, said goodbye to very poorly DCat this afternoon. I can come and join you... Sad

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LST · 23/05/2012 18:52

Awh I'm sorry west Sad

I don't even know. DS was crying (6mo) didn't know what was wrong..

DP had gone to asda to take some shorts back but forgot them so I knew he'd have to come back..

I've got to start work again soon.. And I'm absolutely knackered...

DP doesn't help me, just thinks I'm sitting cuddle our DS all day.. I don't think he realises fairies don't make the house clean and tidy and wash his clothes and garden and Hoover and keep a baby entertained and all the cupboards stocked (even though he works at a supermarket and drives!)

I'm a bit pathetic arn't I?

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LifeBeginsShortly · 23/05/2012 18:54

Can I too? Feeling sorry for myself big time. Toothache, saw dentist, she's said £800 to fix, and did nothing to relieve the pain today (antibiotics should work in a couple of days). Life too hard just now, exams in 2 weeks, lots going on. Just have to get through the next 3 weeks without being a crabby cow to everyone.

AllYoursBabooshka · 23/05/2012 18:58

I shall join you. I've sprained my neck and have horrid PMS which means TTC probably failed. AGAIN.

Whaa... :(

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LST · 23/05/2012 19:04

Ouch lifebegins. I've chipped my tooth and in scared to go the dentist with the amount i'm thinking it's going to cost.

Sad allyours

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only4tonight · 23/05/2012 19:06

Lst get thee to an nhs dentist now while you still get your free treatment!

SunflowersSmile · 23/05/2012 19:08

I'll join you. I have just made a complete tit of myself at a work related thing. In fact I have cried already.
As for the dentist- I have just made myself an appointment for the near future and nervous.

Original poster
LST · 23/05/2012 19:11

Does it count though if I need work doing?? I thought it was just check ups??

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LST · 23/05/2012 19:12

What happened sunflowers?

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UnCharteredromaeosaur · 23/05/2012 19:13
eastendywendy · 23/05/2012 19:14

Yanbu if you let me join in.

I have a chest infection, dd isn't well, ds is 5 and a boy and just lovely but also difficult. Dh is behaving like an absolute arse. I live 100 miles from all my family. My friends seem to have forgotten me.

SunflowersSmile · 23/05/2012 19:16

I was a fool. Had to give a presentation and froze big time. Had to be rescued by embarrassed bystanders. Sympathetic smiles at my incompetence. May take a while to live down.
Sniff....

PuffofSmoke · 23/05/2012 19:18

I cried at work this morning. Blush For no reason at all Hmm. Just took myself off to the toilet and sobbed and sobbed like the world was ending. I never do that?! not wondering if i'm pg, honest i'm not

AllYoursBabooshka · 23/05/2012 19:20

Oh Sun, I'm sure that's happened to most people who do presentations a at work.

It could be worse, You could have lost it completely, stripped naked and clucked like a chicken.

MarySA · 23/05/2012 19:20

I'm not near to tears. But have a horribly stressed out feelilng re keeping on top of house and other things. Nothing really That important.

MarySA · 23/05/2012 19:21

Sun just saw your post. Poor you. Most people have been there.

CakeInMyFace · 23/05/2012 19:22

I feel like crying too - I just miss my family who live abroad and am feeling sad for DD who doesn't have any family around, and my DH's family haven't really taken a huge interest in her. And just struggling with being a SAHM somedays.

SunflowersSmile · 23/05/2012 19:23

Thanks for the sympathy!
'Apprentice' and wine tonight while I lick my wounds. I am too old to be such a twit really I am. I didn't cluck like a chicken- that is something I suppose Grin.

curiousgeorgie · 23/05/2012 19:24

I'm feeling super sorry for myself and need a good cry too...

I just found out today that my pregnancy is either an ectopic or a miscarriage (odd to be thinking that a miscarriage would be my best option :()

My DD is so poorly with a virus and keeps screaming and throwing up on me....

And our dream house fell through so me, DH, DD and our dogs are living in my parents dining room while going through this.

Pass the tissues, calpol and findaproperty page....

NoHank · 23/05/2012 19:25

can I join in? I'm feeling particularly low tonight. DS (5) and DD (2) are just getting over a nasty D & V bug. I have spent the last 2 days up to my elbows in vomit (sorry) and had to take unpaid leave from work to deal with it.

On Friday I received a letter from said work stating my job is at risk of redundancy and inviting me to a meeting yesterday to discuss it. I couldn't make the meeting due to poorly kids - managed to speak to my manager but it isn't looking good.

I was holding onto the thought of doing my pgce but it turns out I probably won't be able to do that either.

And now my tummy hurts too

SunflowersSmile · 23/05/2012 19:25

Oh curiousgeorgie I am so sorry.

SunflowersSmile · 23/05/2012 19:26

Wine for everybody... Wine.

LifeBeginsShortly · 23/05/2012 19:27

LST Free dentistry when maternitised applies to NHS treatment too. I still don't understand why the first £400 of mine isn't NHS (that's for the root canal bit, but I have awkward curved root), and the 2nd £400 is for a non-metal crown - NHS only do basic metal ones. Though I've just read that metal ones are covered in white stuff. Dentist didn't do anything 'cos she's going on mat leave tomorrow and thought I should get her locum to review in case he's better at doing root canal or else I need to be referred to a specialist (why not an NHS specialist?).

Nice thing happened today too... librarian felt so sorry for my sore face that she wiped out £8 of fines Blush.

Have shouted at my lovely dad today. Blush I don't deserve nice people in my life. weeps.

Sunflowers - people forget quickly - better to freeze than talk crap.

Our dog ran away from lovely dad today, for 2 hours. He came home uninjured though, so that's a good thing. Due to lovely dad being phone incompetent, dh and I both came home from work when dog was already home. Weep.

Nothing really bad, nothing really bad, nothing for me to cry about really.
Still weeps.