Party rocks rock. >
I have to say, I genuinely don't understand why it is a bad thing to suggest that someone might enjoy an alternative website more, when they are saying how much they hate this site and its members. What's wrong with saying 'If X.com and it so abhorrent to you, why not try Y.com, where the members do and say the things you profess to like, and don't do/say the things you are complaining about?'
And what's the point of staying on a website you dislike so much, just to tell the members how much you dislike it? I've been to other websites, had a look round, and decided they weren't for me - and I just left - I didn't feel the need to parade my dislike.
Apart from anything else, a website, like any other group, has a history, an atmosphere, a loose kind of ethos - and surely, just as it would be rude to march into a choir or art group or reading group, and tell the members you didn't like them or the way the group was run, it is just as rude to do that on the interweb? It seems a lot bit self-centred and self-important to imagine that a website the size of mumsnet is going to change its fundamental nature just because one poster objects.
And frankly, no - we weren't all waiting for you to arrive here and tell us how and where we were going wrong, so that we could bow in humble adoration at your feet and change everything just to suit you (a bit OTT, I know - but you get the drift).