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to think it's bloody rude not to reply when someone introduces themselves?

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Lottapianos · 23/05/2012 10:17

I have this regularly at work when I go to visit new settings:

Me: 'Hi I'm Lotta, the xxxxxx (my job title)' + eye contact and smile
Them: 'oh' or 'hi' followed by stony silence

Tell me your bloody name FFS! I then end up saying 'and what's your name?' or 'I'm so sorry, I don't know your name' and they mutter it with a 'WTF?' look on their faces. Isn't this fairly basic social skills stuff? Isn't it useful to know the names of people who you meet in a work and/or social capacity? Isn't it polite to say your name when someone tells you theirs???

Sorry for rant! Would be good to hear thoughts Smile

OP posts:
Cloudbase · 24/05/2012 21:26

5foot5 "That's Nice" - that made me snort!

I really do think it's strange. I just sort of assumed it was good manners. And don't people want to know who they're living next door to?? Confused

KizzyC · 24/05/2012 21:31

Just got really excited over the not knowing God's name thing. Is THAT connected to why only Riversong knows the Doctor's name??
Apologies for the tangent. I agree OP, I like to know the name of the person i am dealing with - even if I promptly forget it.

Lottapianos · 25/05/2012 12:53

Update - had a nursery visit this morning where the manager introduced me to all the staff by name, told me all their names and there were smiles and eye contact a plenty! Even a couple of handshakes. No-one looked freaked out or perplexed at this person coming around and introducing themself. The whole situation was positively normal Smile

Why can't every day be like this one? Smile

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Mindyourownbusiness · 25/05/2012 13:34

Hello there ! Grin

Well I agree with the bouncy thing . Not sure if you come across as DHs exw some people do where they are almost too friendly. She They walk into a room and it's all eyes and teeth and big grins and just well..so false really. It's just not endearing at all I'm afraid and comes across as so choreographed.

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