my husband is adamant that I am being unreasonable and that my friend did nothing wrong but I really think her behaviour was odd and not a nice way to treat a friend.
I'll throw it open to the MN jury and take your advice!
My best friend (bridesmaid at my wedding, I am god mother to her Dd) changed towards me when I was pregnant and made me feel very excluded.
What really bothered me though was the way she also changed with my DH. Whenever we saw her she would pretty much ignore me but ask my husband what his plans for the evening were, inviting him to the pub and to go clubbing. One day I interjected and said we had planned some family time that night (it was boxing day) but she carried on as if I had said nothing and continued pressing my DH to go out with her. Her own husband would be staying home looking after their two dcs. He didnt go but she sent us both texts all night asking if I was going to allow him to go out.
Two weeks later we were at a leaving party for another friend in a bar about 40 minutes drive from home. She was making me feel like such a drama queen for having morning sickness (which always struck around 10pm) that I went to the toilets to eat some dry crackers from my handbag to try and make myself feel better. On my return they had their backs to me and I could see that she was standing very close to my DH with her hand on his arm. I walked up to them to hear her say that the pub would be closing soon. What did he think about sending me home and they could go on to a wine bar and carry on drinking. My DH said that he would be going home with me.
So, what do you think? My DH insists that she was just asking as a friend as she is a partier and just wanted a partner in crime.
I think that you don't ask your friend's husband to go out with you on the piss, especially when your friend really can't come too?
PS. I don't for one minute think that my husband is untrustworthy, she on the other hand has a poor track record on monogamy.