DP only ever gets to go to the cinema if I go with him. Therefore I feel responsible if he "misses" films. We've been to see quite a few things these past few months but sometimes I like a girly night at the cinema with my friend too and other times I like to take the kids (DP and I don't live together).
dp has just said he's off work next wednesday so we can go to cinema then to see Dark Shadows or Dictator. I said I'd already made plans to take DS to see avengers. He said "well when can WE go then? don't know how much longer dark shadows will be on, I don't want to miss it" 
so I said "well actually, I told my friend I'd go and see that with her" his response to this was "but you went to see American Pie with her!" yes I remember!
So he's saying "well what can WE go and see then??" so I said we can see Dictator. He wants to go one day next week despite knowing I'm going twice next week already.
AIBU here?? It's not my fault he has nobody else to go with, surely I shouldn't have to go to cinema just because he wants to all the time?? it's not that i don't spend any time with him either btw, we're going away for the whole weekend this weekend, other weekends we often stay at each others houses, coffees during the week etc but I do like to see my friend's too!!
AIBU/