I used to work 40 hours a week (up to 60 hours if i took overtime).
But now I am only allowed now to work 2 days a week thanks to my concerned employers & those pesky GPs / Psychiatrists / Neurologists in charge of my care for 3 interlinked chronic SEVERE Mental Health & Neurological problems (now including Memory Loss). I take 13 pills a day to (just about) function.
I fought to keep my job as work keeps me sane (ish) but i admit it's tough even working 2 days a week.
I may have change my job role to a simpler one if my employers decide it's best - since i returned from sick leave i'm still finding it very hard to cope with my job to be honest.
I'm lucky to have kept my job (even with drastically reduced hours) mainly because my employers like me; they know that i'm genuinely disabled & not a but also i'm very good at some aspects of my job.
I'm single with no financial help from family. I have to pay the bills (housing, council tax, gas, electric, water, sewage etc etc). 2 days a week pay does NOT cover the bills. I'm living on credit cards.
Being in receipt of a Disability Benefit (ie. DLA) is the ONLY way that I can access any other benefits.
So i'm applying for DLA with the full support of the Benefits Officer (who says she would find to easier to help if i got permanently signed off); & my doctors.
I should qualify now for DLA as i am finding even the simple things in life very difficult to cope with. I doubt if I will qualify for PIP(??) as I have good Mental Capacity despite my health problems. If I don't get it then I will lose my home & my mental health will deteriorate further.
I am very very frustrated & angry because i never thought this would happen to me.
No - one ever does, do they??
I never thought i would have to apply for benefits.
I could never imagine being so disabled mentally & neurogically would affect me in this way - I was once one of those people who thought 'anyone can work if they try hard enough' - well haha on me, i guess i deserved that one!!
Seriously no-one truly knows what life is like when you have certain disabilities if they haven't 'walked in those shoes.'
If you glanced at me on a 'good day' you would see a smart, fashionable, intelligent (ish), 'normal looking' young woman.
You really would not have a clue about the truth & I wouldn't blame you.
To all those who moan about disabled benefits claimants:
a) there are many more claimants because better medications & treatments are prolonging people's lives.
b) Be careful. It could be you one day.