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AIBU?

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To get really p**d off at overly chatty & annoying checkout assistants?

78 replies

applecrumple · 13/05/2012 17:42

Don't know about anyone else, but when I go food shopping I want to get my stuff through he checkout as quickly as possible & I don't want to be held up by the assistant asking inane question such as "so, any plans for the weekend"? "yeah, none of your damn business!" I wouldn't mind so much if it didn't mean them slowin down how quickly they scan the items. Anyone else get really annoyed by this??! Grrr!!!

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AmazingBouncingFerret · 13/05/2012 17:45

I suggest you munch on some kalms whle you walk round if you are that annoyed bysomthing so trivial.

AmazingBouncingFerret · 13/05/2012 17:45

And plese d fogive my tying.

Keyboard sht.

CallMeAl · 13/05/2012 17:45

Do an online shop and stay away from normal people then. "Grr" indeed. Hmm

Lac365 · 13/05/2012 17:46

I worked for a short whilst in M&S and they made us chat with the customers. I hated it and left.

It drives me mad too when I'm in a rush (and grumpy). Really don't want to chat!

Salmotrutta · 13/05/2012 17:46

Poor shop assistants - they can't win!

BeerTricksPott3r · 13/05/2012 17:47

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SauvignonBlanche · 13/05/2012 17:47

YABVU.

pinkhebe · 13/05/2012 17:47

They are told to talk to people, it's part of their mystery shop scoring

ThePopsicleKat · 13/05/2012 17:49

You sound like a charmer.

veritythebrave · 13/05/2012 17:50

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Salmotrutta · 13/05/2012 17:50

grumpalump - Grin

I'm totes stealing that ... Grin

Columbia999 · 13/05/2012 17:50

Big thread already here!

nothingsoextraordinary · 13/05/2012 17:52

lol I think you might have pmt. I do and it takes one to know one :)

MaargeritaPracatan · 13/05/2012 17:53

Did you go to charm school?

Was it closed?

JustFab · 13/05/2012 17:54

Talking to you is fine but they also need to learn when the customer doesn't want to chat and shut up accordingly.

MrsFruitcake · 13/05/2012 17:55

YABVU.

That's called being polite and friendly.

SpottedGurnard · 13/05/2012 17:57

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fatmummy35 · 13/05/2012 17:59

FFS why all the threads recently about sales assistants!!! I don't go round slagging off people who are shit at their jobs who work in offices. Just lay off us Sales Assistants.

Salmotrutta · 13/05/2012 18:00

I like a wee chat at the till ... manners cost nothing and all that.

MaargeritaPracatan · 13/05/2012 18:05

Rotten customers are often compensating for a lack of something good in thier lives, it empowers them. A good old shag might help some.

BeerTricksPott3r · 13/05/2012 18:10

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Sunnywithachanceofshowers · 13/05/2012 18:13

YABVVVU

FamiliesShareGerms · 13/05/2012 18:13

YABVU. I can't stand sullen people who don't look you in the eye and barely grunt any necessary communication. Give me a friendly chatty checkout person any day.

applecrumple · 13/05/2012 18:15

Can I just say, for the record, that I have worked as sales and checkout assistants & I was polite and friendly, but didn't push the conversation if the customer clearly didn't want to chat. There is a happy medium - you can be polite and friendly by saying "hello, sorry to keep you waiting", "would you like help packing" etc, without launching into a full blown conversation if it's not wanted.

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hiddenhome · 13/05/2012 18:15

I find any excess chat quite stressful and annoying and don't understand the obsession with smalltalk.

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