I got engaged last xmas , like an idiot I got really excited quickly and told people within days who I wanted for bridesmaids etc some of the people I just asked because I knew them from school and at the time I thought it would be nice.
But looking at the numbers its just too many there are some girls there who don't really speak to me and dont make as much effort as I do. plus when I have my sister as a BM and my niece as a flowergirl plus 6 bridesmaids its quite alot.
booking the venue we are going to have to trim the guestlist to the night do, I know I have to give some people this news its not something thats ever going to be 'nice news' arrgggh.
AIBU to send them an email to tell them I may have to add them the the night party guestlist and that I'm really sorry for being a giddy idiot.