AIBU to send the other woman a personalised card?

[exmrs]

I so want to send a card to the other woman with a few choice words in and a nice picture on the front but is that going too far?
Yes i know my husband has done wrong and he was the one married but when i confronted other woman who knew he was married and a young child she blamed me for their affair, if she would have had some remorse i could have let it go but she was proud of the fact.

Come off it. She's just as bad as he is and deluded to boot. She knew he was married.

If the woman/man you are falling for is married you have the option to say "Yes, I love you but this cannot go further while you are married."

You would have to be incredibly thick to think it's fine to sleep with someone attached on the ground that their marriage is bad. If it's so bad why don't you leave before shagging someone else?

exmrs, The low life in question deserved to be confronted, accused and blamed. You have done that so don't do anything further. Given her brainless, pathetic response anything else would be wasted on her. Move on and thank your lucky stars that he's not your problem anymore.

Good luck!

thank you allyours and everyone else who has replied i do feel a bit happier today as i have boxed up alot of his things and i have made a start making the house mine how i want it instaed of having everything the way he did

I just think it would be interesting to hear the other side. We've heard this tale a thousand time. I would love to see a thread where a man posts about some bastard stealing away his wife! But I'm also still waiting on a delivery of rocking horse shit.

I would say the same thing about a man sleeping with a married women.

Another one who says 'don't do it' she's made her bed - let her lie in it. The best revenge is to be happy. It's taken me a long time to learn that but it's very true. Karma is a bitch that the ow will get to know.

Guesstimate how much time it would take to do the card and then spend that amount of time doing something nice for yourself.

Now, you've spent that bit of time so you don't have time left to waste on the waste of space. Either of them.

Onwards and upwards, that's were you should be heading if you want to really send a message.

Watch "Sliding Doors" if you haven't seen it already.

Hey exmrs - sorry to hear what's happened and I just wanted to agree that living well and concentrating on you and your DC is the most important thing I think she is VERY unsisterly to the point of being a semi-woman!! Obv your ex is a lying cheating dog but any decent person wont be the "other person" Screw them and get some strength from the fact we are all on your side!