Gotta lol at the FB groups. What AF said about a load of MNers talking about themselves on there instead of on here.
There is a FB group of which I have been made aware - I assume it is invitation only as an MNer who has been invited made me aware of said group, which is not searchable to the hoi-polloi. Although this group apparently chat about a subject about which I sometimes post on MN, I have not been invited.
I assume I have not been invited as I once had a PM from one of the group attacking me for pulling her up on a post she made defending abusers. My MN spy sent me some posts from this group and LOLOL! The group is talking about their experiences at the hands of narcissists, and their posts are ALL ABOUT THEM - as in ALL ABOUT ME ME ME. Talk about ironic, as someone sang.
So actually it appears that you are welcome in the group as long as there is no dissent - sounds a bit like my marriage to a narc!
So the upshot is - I am still here - for what it's worth!