To ask you experienced NM's if....

[YesIamYourSisterInLaw]

someone being discussed in the OP has ever appeared to defend themselves?

I just always wonder with all the mil/bil/sil etc posts that someone must see a post a think "hang on a minute, that's me!"

Y'know, I mention to all my friends that I'm on here and not a one of them admits to being here too. So it doesn't matter what I say...

roundtable - "really weird apology" It is a genuine apology. Was told friend was reading and realised I'd been horrible and hurt friend's feelings and felt like a shit

(SarahBumBarer - prefer your version of events )

I was wondering whether you were genuinely alright OAM, glad to see you are

Have you talked to your friend since the thread?

I admire you for posting it, I would have run away and hidden found it a difficult one.

Hi AgentZigzag - thanks very much, ! Yes, I'm still here, sobered by the experience and determined not to behave so badly be such a bitch again. Also would like to share that MN is great but is no substitute for sorting out a problem by talking in RL like adults.

I'm afraid I can't answer your question in public as I did promise my friend that I would not comment again on the situation.

Thanks again for your kindness tho - more

I have to say I am fairly out and don't post anything that I wouldn't say to a person face.

I did once get set a link to a thread I started, by a friend suggesting I read it as "it's hilarious"

OAM in fairness I think your issue was that your 'friend' wouldn't talk to you in RL about the problem or indeed behave like an adult. But I won't draw you on it in case we get another 'gun to head' scenario :o

The Jon Ronson thread is a bit - was the wife posting real??? It was before my time on MN...

OAM, I'm sure you were genuine. Definitely never doubted that.

Like Ang, I won't say anymore about it as I don't want you in trouble again