To not give DH my password

[Bambino81]

My DH works in IT, we have two PC's and a laptop in the house. He's managed to take over them all. He changes hard drives so my music/pics etc go missing, he assures me they're all safe and I believe him but it just annoys me because nothing is my own.

So I went and got an iPad yday, so i could have my own thing without anyone interferring. Obv DH and DD both wanted a play on it, so we all had a day of playing yday. I noticed he's already downloading crap on it, so I passworded it so he can't get on it. AIBU to do that?

omg my dh is ALWAYS changing/moving hard drives or whatever and losing my pics. It drives me up the wall for the same reasons. YANBU to not give him your password, frankly you shouldn't have to password your things to prevent him from interfering with them...you should just be able to say, 'this is mine, please don't mess with it'. Or is that asking too much?