HI Madeymoodysmum
I have a ds 10 years old who i suspected had nut allergy ? aged 18 months when he took a bite of my smooth peanut butter sandwich and sicked up his milk he had just had.
I didn't take him for testing ,i just kept nuts out of house and diet.
When he started primary i mentioned it on his form and school nurse told me to get official test as it was serious .oppps!
He is 11 in 2 months and was re-tested only because they were testing for something else and thought they would do the lot while we there !!!
He has epi-pens but i dont always carry them with me as i still check what he eats etc while out ,but i do take them and pirition(all perscription) when we go on hols or visit friends.
If your dc does get dx the information will seem daunting!
In OUR expirience ds is ok with may contain traces...or packaged in nut factory.. it is hard to find many things without this warning..???? poss to protect themselves?
But as i said it is VERY important to treat your DC as an individual and NOT take my infomation as ok for all..
I just wanted you to know it is workable..my ds has known about nuts from a very early age and so do his brothers 9/8 yrs and have never asked for nutella in the house or other things!!!!
He is going to secondary school in sept witch will give a few concerns for a few weeks but he is sensible and i am sure he will be fine
Let us know how you get on
HTH